So yesterday he was telling me that he had to work late. Doesn't make any sense because he had no reason to work late to my knowledge and I know his schedule pretty well. There's only certain times that he has to work late and from what he communicated yesterday it sounded like a usual work day.
Come the morning he's very standoffish response more as if we are friends rather than people that were dating each other or thinking of dating each other seriously and his communication is s***** in comparison to usual. Like it's not as engaging or anything.
Like by all assumptions you could say that he's been cheating. But as he's such a poor communicator - like it's not often he initiates text - it's hard to say and I really don't know if I should reach out or just sit and see what he does
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Okay, okay... it's hard for me to give a good answer because I am sure there are circumstances and history, and you cannot put all the details in to post without boring us all together.
I have been through this type of thing, several times... I mean everything seems on track then one day it all just feels different and then the anxiety starts to creep in and messes with your mind. So, I will share this advice with you, based upon what I learned or experienced and you can decide for yourself if it's worth anything to you.
I am the type of person that always looks for the best in people, because I honestly believe that most people by and large are good people with good intentions, but dating brings out the worst in us all sometimes. So even though I am kind and forgiving person, sometimes that forgiving nature has cost me a lot of heartache.
In dating it is always good advice to not make assumptions about anything. Never assume the worst of people, but at the same time never assume the best of them either. It's really hard not to make any assumptions, but at some point, in time your opinion matters... and only you will know when you have reached that point. But always trust your gut, it seldom lies to you. Once that doubt starts to sink in, it rarely reverses itself on its own.
If he struggles with opening up and having honest conversations, then that is no excuse for you not to do it. So be honest with him, tell him how he is making you feel and then listen to him. If he does not get the message, or you do not like what he has to say, trust your gut.