What should I do about this situation?

[Emz19]

I sent a guy a message the other day which I shouldn’t have sent. He did something to upset me and I immediately sent him an angry message. He then blocked me, probably because he was upset. A few days ago, he unblocked me saying he wanted to talk. He suggested today at 4pm. I accepted. Today he wrote back saying “never mind, all the best, it is too long”. How is talking about the situation too long? Anyway, after he sent me that, he blocked me again. I think I’ve really upset him with that message but I wanted to talk to him to apologise and it looked like he wanted to talk too and put this behind us. But now I can’t sort it out because I can’t message him as I’m now blocked on all his socials. I don’t understand why he said he wanted to talk if he’s just gonna block me. I could hope that he’ll eventually unblock me and message me again. Alternatively, I was thinking of getting a friend or family member to message him to ask him to unblock me so that I can apologise. What do you think? This was a guy who I was gonna have a relationship with but it seems to have ended before it’s even begun! I don’t want to end things like this with him. Should I ask a friend or family member to ask him to unblock me or should I hope that he decides to unblock me himself. I don’t know what to do.

[boggboss]

Don't get friends and family involved its more likely to annoy him then actually work as for why he said it was long clearly he changed his mind or couldnt be bothered

[spartan55]

Good lord, what an absolute clown show. CALL him, or TALK to him in person... this is how you communicate, not through stupid social media...

[Emz19]

I tried that but I can’t make a plan with him to meet in person because I’m blocked on his socials

[spartan55]

That's why you never put all your eggs in one basket. Social media is a terrible way to: form a relationship, communicate effectively, get to know someone, etc, etc. Yet young people act like it's the only way to communicate with someone. Then they wonder why they fail, again and again.

[joeldalton]

He changed his mind. MOve on.