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I’m 27, a vegan, and I’ve never had a serious long-term relationship. I’m a vegan because I grew up in a conservative Seventh-day Adventist (SDA) Christian household. Long, story short, SDAs, especially more conservative ones believe in a prophetess named Ellen G. White and she has a health message where she encourages believers to be vegan and not drink coffee. My parents imparted these ways on me. I’ve tried eating meat here and there, but it’s rarely tasted good or I’m slow at eating it.

The one short-term relationship that I’ve had was with a fellow vegan in the church, but on the 2nd date she ate my food and she never showed me any affection (we never held hands or kissed).

Other girls in the church either had more liberal parents that let them eat meat, or they want a guy that’s not in church, or they want some extremely long courtship process and have ridiculously high standards.

My parents projected a lot onto me growing up. They wanted me to be this superstar academically and stressed education. I never went to any SDA schools because my parents thought their education standards were too low. Part of me regrets not going to one because I feel like I could’ve met a girl who’d like me. But now at my church, there’s barely any girls.

When I look outside on dating apps like Hinge & Bumble, I rarely get matches and dates, but when I do it’s like they can sense something’s wrong with me. For instance, I went on a date with a girl and ordered a chicken pasta out of fear of being rejected for ordering something vegan. I didn’t finish it and she thought that was weird. She ghosted me after the date.

Even had a friend in church recommend her friend outside of church to me. We had a lot in common from liking the same basketball players and teams to traveling to different countries. But she said she doesn’t date any kind of vegetarian.

I feel so behind socially and hopeless. My parents say I’m suffering for Christ so it’s ok. I think that’s a load of crap.

I met her at a party and I got her Snapchat. She lives far away from me so our communication has been mainly over Snapchat and messaging apps like zoom. We talk a lot and I share things with her.

Because I am older than her she jokes about me being her sugar daddy. Sometimes she opens my messages instantly. I did a video call with her and she said that she was glad that we are alone because she could cook me dinner and she said there was wine available and that were gonna be dating. When she went to bed she was saying I was in there with her and I had to say goodnight to her. She has also dedicated a song to me and she doesn’t do that to her other guy friends

She has said she wants to come and see me when she can. This other guy says she’s a Queen and that and she doesn’t really say anything but when I do it she sometimes goes red. Today she was joking about the sugar daddy thing and I wrote all these messages going along with the joke and she started going super super red. She giggles heaps. Laughs at things others do not or I would not. We’ve had a few fights but she always forgives me. She gets jealous of other women and she jokingly said to me “hey you can have another girlfriend I won’t mind I won’t”. What do you think? Does she like me? I do like her obviously but yeah what do you think? Vote or comment your answer!