I’m an honest person so if somebody ask me questions, especially while dating, I answer truthfully cause I’ve got nothing to hide and expect the same back (even if not the reality). Think you’re being too emotional for the short time span, try not to get so flustered about the questions next time. Just answer honestly. Obviously, they asked the questions for a reason and you can utilize their reactions/responses to gauge the person more and understand if you have the same values. You prematurely ended the gathering data/information portion and you can ask questions too. Better to know this information sooner than later so as to not waste everyone’s time. Also, I think you got attached way too quickly. Only been on 2 dates but feel like you’ve known them forever 😬.
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Okay. I get it. You're upset. Part of me thinks you're overreacting but also, your feelings and I respect that.
Here's the thing: you wrote that he said he fucked up and he said sorry.
What more do you want?
If you want to end it over this, then end it. If you want to date him, date him (sounds like you had fun on the first two). But it sounds like you want to be offended. That you want a grievance.
Everyone is different. Not every woman shares your opinion on those questions or your timeline. Not every man.
I guess if you're looking for validation for your self righteous indignation, fine, but I'm not sure you have a leg to stand on. What more do you want from him and what do you want this forum to say?
most people don't know how to be social anymore, what to ask, how to ask, how to hold proper conversations.
i personally do not think he meant anything by what he said or to offended you. he apologized if he didn't care about your feelings he wouldn't have even bothered. i think he was asking because he likes you and it came out oh so wrong and nosey.
if you were that comfortable like you have known him forever, give him a shot he has already made the steps by saying he messed up you know?
what do you have to lose to go Saturday? and maybe talk about this in person with him?
people mess up, we are human
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It sounds like he was trying to figure out whether you were into hookup culture or not. Either he was trying to figure that out so he could avoid you and move on, or hookup with you. I don't know why he felt the need to ask simply because any man with even a basic level of experience in the world can discern what type woman he's talking to.
You said you feel like you can talk to him about anything but I guess not everything. You may not have given him an answer but you did answer his question. Better to end it early than have this problem later when it will be a bigger issue an bigger drama.
waiting for 3rd date is a common habit. your reaction "just sex" is inaccurate considering you had two dates. 3rd is common unless religious then wait until wedding. which is why he asked your count.
I don't think he was in the wrong for asking
im not reading all that make it short
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