Should women have to work for men too?

[Anonymous]

Girls get everything handed to them! They can be shallow, terrible people and get so many dates. Whereas I’m a nice person and I can never seem to get a date.

As a man the biggest lesson is that no one gives a f about you.

Women should have to work for me

No women shouldn’t

[Flatmanlewis]

I would have to say this has not been my experience in life. You may know, or have met, some of these women but they are not reflective of reality.


For every woman I have ever met like that I have met a dozen or more who do, in fact, work very hard for their life. I know single moms with multiple college degrees. I know women with the kindest heart you’ve ever seen who have their own frustrations meeting a respectful man. I know women who take nearly two hours to get out the door for a date and look like they stepped out of a magazine, whereas I could go from shorts & t-shirt to suit and tie in 20 minutes.


Many, many, women DO work hard. I think you have some frustration and anger and you are in danger of allowing “your issue to become your identity” and nothing will kill your chances for meeting a decent woman than bitterness and anger.

[Unit1]

"As a man the biggest lesson is that no one gives a f about you."

And that's the most important lesson boys need to have. A heartbreaking but strengthening one. We don't get the cushions and perks, that the girls have inherited.

As for your question - Meh. Relationships are a 2 way street. It's a give and take (not necessarily materialistically). If you give but are never given, that's on you.

[_Maya_]

What do you mean work for men? Or work for you? Do they have to put in any effort? Of course. Relationships are two sided. 8 billion and change in population on this earth and lots of those are in a relationship. You are suggesting that not a single woman cares or works for their man or relationship? That is just ridiculous to think. You claim you are a nice person but yet you are constantly bitching about women from 10 accounts a day. What is nice about that? Perhaps that is your problem. You might also have to lower your standards to match your own. I don't really see someone that is constantly whining getting many dates because they have this super high definition of what type of girl is worth of their attention. Be humble.

[Anonymous]

If shallow and terrible women are getting dates, it's 100% up to men to stop dating those types and they'll figure out they need to change. You can claim you're a nice guy but that's just your opinion and debatable if true. You come across as bitter and angry and those are likely the traits preventing you from getting dates. If you can't get a date, you can probably deduct that you need to change something about yourself.

[Busiie]

This is another point. Everything seems to be on a man and his fault……everything. But nothing is a woman’s fault. She’s perfect the way she is

[normalice]

Women put in a massive amount of work to attract men. And even more work to maintain a relationship. The only work men have to do is approach.

[ManInChains]

If women want things to be equal, yes. They will have to work for men too.

[frabuco]

No, that's not how I feel at all. We have to fight for everything

[The_Sexpert]

Not exactly "Work" , but yeah both should put in effort in a relationship

[In_Trance]

The problem is in your description