Is it too much to ask my boyfriend to unfollow people that make me feel uncomfortable & stupid while I’m dating him?

[Anonymous]

Before he meet me he tried getting with a cousin of mine, she’s really close to me, but she’s told me that they hung out a couple times, but she didn’t like him that way & how he’s tried making moves on her & makes me feel a certain way knowing he’s still following her. Also he’s following 2 other girls that tried breaking us up & made up things & came up to me telling me to be careful with him. I eventually told him about it but he denied everything saying how they were just trying to start things to see me unhappy. Also one of them is dating my ex & she’s gives me side eye but don’t give her the time of day. But I’m just trying to understand why he still follows them. It makes me feel uncomfortable & stupid being his girlfriend not gonna lie. I haven’t mentioned it to him but in some way it’s just social media but it’s disrespectful to me. What y’all think? 🤔

[spartan55]

If you really think stupid shit like that matters just break up. You aren't ready for a relationship.

[Nikki1989]

Anyone that takes social media that seriously is a red flag. You might need to look for someone more mature.

[Asker]

True! That’s low key been on the back of my mind he’s 25 & I’m 28 I know I deserve someone at my level but I tried not being one of those controlling couples.

[MementoMori777]

so you dont consider him flirting and trying to get with your cousin cheating?

[Asker]

No, not necessarily. Because they hung out before he met me. I lived in a different state at the time. But my cousin said they hung out only once & he tried to kiss her & since then she never hung out with him again.

[MementoMori777]

sounds complicated

[Asker]

Lol right!

[Anonymous]

Sounds like he’s playing a numbers game and you were the one that bit. If he’s keeping other girls in sight it’s because he wants other girls in sight.

[Avicenna]

That's a reasonable request

[In_Trance]

Yes it is