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Girls, is the text I want to send way too much?

Anonymous

There was a coworker of mine who left back in September 2022. She used to ask me why i get nervous around (crush), has asked me if i have a girlfriend, and has also gotten touchy, i think she knew. She also started talking to me more and asking me questions.

i wanted to send her this:

”Hey how are you doing? Sorry for the random DM. We were coworkers at (company name) in 2022.

I know this is a really bad timing and weird message, but I wanted to say something.

You have asked me a few times why I get nervous, and you have also asked if someone ever had a crush on a coworker during a game of Never Have I Ever at the 1st Anniversary of (company name) back in July. I did have one on you, and I still do till now. You have also asked me if I have never talked to girls, and no, I haven’t. You are right about that, which is why this text may seem awkward to read.

I have been overthinking this for a long time and today I wanted to spill it out.

I’m not sure if there is anything mutual but I just wanted to let you know. I never had the guts to say this face to face and also because we were at work.

I have no idea about your current dating situation and this message may have been sent to you during a time where you are already dating someone, or maybe you aren’t interested in me, or maybe you won’t even read this message. But that’s fine. I just wanted to speak my mind out.”

Is this too much?

Girls, is the text I want to send way too much?
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