Honest opinion about my relationship?

[Anonymous]

I’m 28 dating a 25 year old Aquarius if that gives you any hint of the type of person he is or believe in zodiac signs lol I’m a Taurus by the way.
anyways I’ve been trying to work things out with him for some time now. He has changed in certain areas but he did use to talk to a lot of girls & Snapchat with them in the beginning which I guess was fair since we were just talking. Things started to get serious with us but not only until I brought things up to him that I didn’t like he would stop. He has eventually cut them off according to him. But I’ve also noticed him liking girls post on IG. I’m not the person to makes things like that a big deal but I have standards & I’ve brought it up to his attention multiple times that I find it disrespectful & makes me look stupid. One day he was talking all sweet to me saying how I’m the most beautiful out there minutes later likes a girls pic. I’m petty so I did kinda brought that up after & told him. He later unliked it & was questioning me whose picture. I swear the audacity of this guy. Lol I broke things up with him because I can’t stand a liar or gaslighting. But he always comes back & tries to work things out, he eventually works on things, he says he loves me & he wants a future with me & he wants to take care of me. But I don’t know what in the right mind he thinks I will be okay with that! So my question is am i the problem by taking that to serious, because i know some of y’all will be like it’s just you being insecure but it’s not even that or do I have the reason of feeling disrespected & having bountries?
I obviously still have feelings for him & deep inside I want to work things out but I really would like to hear what you guys think! 🧐

[Anonymous]

Too much didn't read.

I assume your post is about relationship problems. I found all relationship problem are caused by a lack of a conscious, joint vision or inability to get and stay in harmony with that vision.

A vision is how you want things to be. Exactly how you want your Relationship, life to be.

To be in harmony with that vision means to be the people who rightly fit or have that life.

If you want to get rid of problems, create a joint vision. Then you know exactly how things are going to be and you'll be in agreement with them. If you both can't agree on the vision then you know 100% there will be problems in the relationship that u just have to deal with or leave.

That's the easy part though. People often make the mistake in believing communication is the most important thing in a relationship. There is a big difference between knowing what you should do and doing it. The secret is knowing on to change your conditioning so that you are a match for the vision. Once you get in harmony with it the vision will progressively realize itself.

Without a vision u both are operating from unconscious visions and the 2 visions are fighting for dominance. The separation always manifest in physical separation or a lack of fulfillment.

[Asker]

Love the response! I 100% agree! I will keep that in mind. Thank you!

[OddBeMe]

Astrology is bullshit.

Sorry.