I’m really struggling as I am in love with my child’s father. I’ll keep it short and simple but he mentioned the other day he does not want a relationship right now but he does in the future and he dosent want me to move on but he feels helpless and can’t be in a relationship right now. He was crying on the phone which made me feel terrible and just wanting to help. He said he loves me and wants us to eventually be in a relationship but right now it’s the last thing on his mind.
do I sit and wait around for him or move on? He’s been so distant recently and barley calls me as much but he always says he loves me and cares and wants to be with me eventually but now isn’t the time. He also goes out every single weekend recently clubbing and I think he’s sleeping with other women. When we had our daughter we weren’t officially together we were just dating and it’s always been like that. He rarely sees me anymore and says he does not want me to get the impression and mixed signals that we’re together but in a few months that’s what he wants.
I am very take it as it is person so do I believe this or does it just sound like he wants to go and do what he wants and have fun for a while? I do everything for him and care and I get nothing in return.
His past is not good but I’ve always been told not to judge people from the past, I. e he’s slept around and had many women before and I’m pretty sure me and him are the longest he’s had a women in his life but it’s only since I’m the mother of his child I think. It’s really hard because I love him but I don’t know what I love about him. I don’t know if it’s just because of the circumstances. Do I hold on to him or let him go.
