My boyfriend has a VERY different family from mine, what should I do?

[Anonymous]

So me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 years now we are both 22, everything is good between us except his family.. They are just too relaxed about everything and it gets me feeling weird, because i grew up in a family where me and my sisters were not so free like his family and we would be thinking twice before we do something and my parents were always so disciplined, unlike his. His parents are letting him do anything he wants, sometimes i think that they are careless but they do love him a lot. But the fact that they are just comfortable with every situation is very new to me because I am not used to this type of things and at least I have respect in my family unlike his. They also swear a lot and they talk to me they don't hesitate they just tell me whatever they think of without holding back nothing. They are good people but they are just careless about life and are not so ethical which irritates me and gives me the ICK!!! help what should I do?

[Some_Goof]

If it feels like too much to you, like if your ick for his family is greater than your love for him, then you should beeak up
But in my opinion, you're in a relationship with him and not his family, him family shouldn't factor too much. You have to accept them as they are and ignore what you don't like.

[NotInterestedSorry]

You either learn to accept it or break up if you can't. A lot of families are carefree

[Avicenna]

It's pretty common to not like at least some of the in-laws/your partner's family. Just try to avoid the most uncomfortable situations with them as much as possible.

[boggboss]

Help with whatbits somthing u get use yo or u end things like what kind of answer are u looking for

[In_Trance]

wdym what do you do?
you accept it or you move on