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So he (26) is in the music career and so is she, she books people for shows and I see on her fb she interacts with a TON of people, and even more with guys. On fb and insta she classifies herself as "pansexual and queer and polyamorous." She is very open and sure of it; she is also 28. She preaches to share love and she can love anyone and multiple people. That said, I saw she shared his profile photo and wrote a post with it, saying how she adored him, he's a sweet boy, amazing man, so talented, and thanking him for "sharing life with her." She lives in another state, and he performed with her over a month ago and again will in a few days. She said she cannot wait to see him again and her other friends, and she's counting down. She is not attractive really, like at all, but everyone can be atttactive to someone else for some reason.
I saw she posts multiple "man crush Mondays" with different guys all the time, and a month ago had a similar post with another guy, sharing his photo. Maybe 7-10 guys total... it's just his is the most recent and seems way over the top.

He has been online multiple times and he has not commented or liked the post. His 2 closest friends "loved" the post and one commented "💛."
I know we aren't together so I can't ask him and be all jealous, but it's just.. we are talking and I was led to believe he was into me since we have spoken as such.

I regularly take my guy out. Dinner, drinks, a movie, whatever. Happily💟❤️😜. But when it comes to the VERY FIRST DATE...

A Man Only Has Two Gifts

When it comes down to understanding the Laws of Polarity, masculine energy only has two gifts to offer the feminine. Simply put, it’s his job to protect and provide. In order for feminine energy to relax into a relationship and let her guard down, she absolutely must feel “safe” and if she doesn’t, it’s game over.

In order to feel safe, she probably has to be in the company of a man who is confident, relaxed and grounded. He has to not only take care of himself, but also take care of her. This means she has to feel protected and safe in his company—both from outside forces—and from him. She also needs to feel like he can provide for her needs and look after her. Obviously, the easiest and most symbolic way to demonstrate that is by providing the meal you are sharing.

So, what is the woman’s responsibility here?

If a man’s responsibility is to protect and provide, the gift of the woman is her ability to nurture and have her man’s back. Simply put, a man is looking for a woman who will gratefully receive his gifts and appreciate his generosity. The fact is, a man can be with anyone else at any given time and when he invests his time, talent and treasure with a woman, he simply wants it to be acknowledged. Those who seem less than grateful or have an attitude of entitlement should realize how distasteful that is and not be surprised when a good man finds it to be a deal-breaker.