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Backstory: We’re acquaintances (friends of a friend.), we met at a party in the beginning of the year. He’d been trying to ask me out I had a lot of things happening all at once. Career change and moving figuring out if I’d continue to live in the area or find something back in my hometown. I stayed in the area, he helped me move my mattress. Then we’d been texting pretty much everyday and he’d FaceTime me twice just talking nothing crazy. I had car trouble, that he fixed. I couldn’t pay him he knows I cook so he asked me if that could be his payment. I said yeah. We were hanging out eating, smoked some weed and we both had stuff to get back to.

Current: I found free roller skating at a park and asked if he wanted to go. He said yes and it became a date. We ended up hooking up. We had some technical difficulties and planned for next weekend.

That next weekend, He asked if I still wanted to go to the movies with him, I said yes. Dressed a little fancy and we came back to my place to eat. We watched another movie he really wanted to see b/c he hadn’t seen it. Movie finished at 3am, I asked if he was going home he said he was really tired. I said he can sleep here if he wants he said yeah. Surprise he wasn’t that tired. We tried with the sex again. He thought he was hurting me I assured him he wasn’t. I don’t think he believed me and we just laid there talking for like a half hour and fell asleep. He also left his earring. I didn’t say anything about it though. After we were texting for four days. The responses weren’t dry or sparse everything normal. Then he suddenly stopped.

Should I text him just a simple “Hey, you good?” Or just keep being radio silent? I can at least think of five reasons: He’s not interested. He’s an introvert a social battery thing. Focused on finding a new apartment that I distracted him from twice. He actually wants a girlfriend (not sure why). Or it’s all those reasons. Should I just not say anything and leave him alone?

I like a guy at work, coincidentally he worked in front of me for 3-4 days a month and half ago. I didn’t like him during that time but once I began like him, I found out he works in other separate area not where I work at.

so my plan to make him my friend working together failed.

we don’t cross paths so it’s difficult try talk to him. He seems shy , walking alone no friends reserved.

the last time he worked near me I felt him look at me and when I turned to look at him he quickly looked down at the floor. So our eyes didn’t meet.

I also don’t see girls walking with him or approaching him. I’m shy myself so I’m also not walking with a guy or anything.

it’s been a while since I’ve seen him and I can’t be around him so he notice me more and look at each other. Only way this can happen is if I talk to him myself.
or shud I not talk to him never and stay single and sad& continuework and day dream of this guy I like a lot in my head?

there’s many men daily at job like 100 but I only like him. Or is it true only men need make first move or else they don’t like you enough?