I was his first crush. He was a shy and introverted guy. I made a first move on him after knowing his interest about me. We spoke for few days. He was happy. Everything was running smoothly until one day I found out that I was blocked from his phone. I was depressed. I reached home out through many ways but he blocked me through every way and started blaming me for his loss of interest and broke up with me even I begged him to stay. He didn't respond to my texts, calls and blocked me through all communication mediums. But he always posts love quotes about getting back with me which I found through his friend. Recently I confronted him and apologized him if I would made any fault and asked if he have a new girlfriend but he didn't respond me even though he saw my texts and he straight away blocked me mercilessly without listening my words. He still stalks me when I move on, but he doesn't make any effort to get back. What are his intentions? What should I do? Move on from him and find someone new?
Is it my mistake or his?
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Well. Because you asked him about having another girlfriend threw everything off. Kinda was a red flag.
Why was it a red flag if I wanna get my doubt rectified?
Yes it was
Because, why tell him about getting another girlfriend
I didn't tell him to get a new. I asked him if he got a new girlfriend and if it was the reason he blocked me
So. Maybe yes, that's why he blocked you. But if you asked him about having a new girlfriend, then red flag. But asking if he's got a new girlfriend. No. It ain't a red flag.
Then why didn't he mention it even after I repeatedly asked him?
Something about you threw him off. Probably, you interrogated him with that question.
No, I asked him if he have a girlfriend he didn't respond. I told him that other guys want me and he blocked me. I wanted to make him jealous but that didn't work and turned worst
Did you say it in a nice and courteous way?
No, I said very aggressively