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I recently broke up with my girlfriend Sandra because I had too many trust issues. I really love Sandra but I had to end it because I always thought was cheating. She seemed kinda flirtatious and inappropriate with her male friends.

Right after I dumped Sandra I went online and found a girl named Brenda. Me and Brenda were a good match. And I usually don’t do well with online dating. Only problem with Brenda is she lives in another city. I live in Seattle and she lives in Portland. So we talked online for 3 weeks until she finally drove up to Seattle to meet me. We had a great time together with the best sexual chemistry. I drove to Portland the week after. I agreed to have a long distance relationship with Brenda to keep her coming back. Brenda calls me her boyfriend. Now Brenda is talking marriage and wants me to move to Portland. I’ve told her I don’t wanna live in Portland but she’s trying to convince me. I do like Brenda and I want to keep her. But I can’t live in Portland.

As much as I like Brenda I know I’m eventually gonna have to let her go, but I’m not ready to let her go as of yet. On the other hand Sandra wants to get back together. I do love Sandra and want to be with her and try again. But I also love Brenda who I know is gonna be gone eventually. What should I do?

A lot of women are taking advantage and even defrauding unsuspecting men at bars and nightclubs around my city.

First incident occurred at a nightclub. I was talking to this girl and offered to buy us drinks. She requested 2 shots of expensive liquor. I brought back the drinks and some guy she was associated with and claimed was her "transportation" quickly approached and chugged both shots down and they both hurried out of there.

The second and most serious incident occurred today. Two girls approached us claiming to be college students were talking to me and my roommate and we carried on a conversation. We later approached them and offered to buy them drinks. They requested our credit cards and was wanting to buy us all drinks on our behalf. Immediately, red flags started showing and we handed them some cash instead. They approached the bar and stood there a long time. They waited until we turned out backs and they disappeared. Imagine if I was stupid enough to hand them my debit card!

I contacted the police and the local news, as an officer told me this has been happening a lot at bars around here.

I guess women continue to screw up a man's life all the time.