8 for months (he says not that long - the girl says 8 months) he said it stopped and started again. I recently found out and confronted him. He denied it all for several weeks. I had a terrible feeling one of the mornings that he did stay at my home (he had stayed with me the same nights every week and had other nights at home when he had his son). It was 6:15 am I got up and drove towards his house - and there he was coming around the corner! I almost died. I knew he was dropping her off as he would NEVER Be out that early! I followed for a second called him and he upset asking ME why I was following him and to STOP! I said I am done with you -effin liar! Etc. I went to his house sat outside until he got home a few minutes later. He was speechless basically. I was crying & upset obviously. I left and didn’t speak to him for a couple of days. He texted many many times trying to reach me. I had nothing to say. I gave in two days later - he wanted to meet to talk. We talked for 6 hours. He confessed to a lot. Not enough but I didn’t want a lot of details. He told me he wanted to be with me. 8 years together and loved me. I was the love of his life. He had told me months prior that he wasn’t feeling like I loved him as much as he loved me. He Felt unappreciated, felt lonely etc. I knew I how he could have felt this way. I was divorced and I was afraid of being with someone I really loved (he is much younger) he had treated he better than anyone ever. I told him I would prove my love for him etc. fast forward this was already going on when we had that talk months prior. He is now still being suspicious with his phone. It doesn’t leave his side. I have gotten it and gone through. Her number is blocked and deleted but I still feel something is up (lately). I don’t know if this is is OLD habits creeping in with not letting the phone out of his sight but I don’t like it and I told him so. He promised full transparency/honesty. Is he still talking to her
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1 y
Oops I see lots of errors
I meant on a night he did NOT stay with me
I meant on a night he did NOT stay with me
