Dating

What am I doing?

Little back story, it’s been 4 years since my last relationship, after my ex I kinda just gave up everything cause she absolutely destroyed me. I recently started talking to this girl, she got out of a relationship a few months ago and when we started talking we both agreed that we weren’t really trying for a relationship, just friends. Long story short, that was a fail. We’ve gone out for dinner a couple of times, just drove around talking and went to grab ice cream another night, and then we met up on Mother’s Day and she introduced me to her son. We have both admitted that we have feelings for each other, but she still is hesitant on anything becoming of it right now, which I fully understand, I don’t want her feeling rushed into anything, she needs time to process her thoughts and sort through her feelings after what she has been through. We talk everyday from morning til we both go to bed, and we have plans to meet up and spend the day together this upcoming Saturday. I know how I feel when I’m with her and it’s a feeling that I’ve been missing for so long, I know she has some feelings towards me, I just don’t know to what extent. I guess my question is, do I keep pursuing? She’s an incredible woman and worth every effort. But for my own well being, and for everyone’s, I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to be getting so invested with her and her son if those feeling might not lead anywhere.
What am I doing?
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