So recently I reached out to a friend I hadn't really talked to for about 1-1.5 years, and we decided to meet up and talk about somethings. After having met up she suddenly decided she didn't want to talk to me anymore. I know it's quite vague, so if you're interested I'll write some details down below. Thanks in advanced.
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So about 2.5 years ago I met this girl (lets call her Emma) and we just clicked and ended up taking quite a lot. At the time I was in a really long distance relationship, so I didn't really think of her in any romantic way, but more as a friend.
About half a year later my girlfriend and I broke up, and me and Emma started to flirt quite a a lot, and I realised I liked her, which should have been great since I thought she like me too. Problem is I have some issues, mainly trouble with sustaining meaningful relationships of any kind, so I decided to stop talking to her, which I know is a bad decision, but at the time I thought it was the right thing to do for me, and I can't change it now so it is what it is.
I recently reached out to her again, because I just generally miss talking to her. In the time we didn't talk, she's gotten a boyfriend and all in all seem to be doing really well, which is great, im happy for her, but as mentioned I just miss talking to her, so I dont strive to date her or anything. Anyway we decided to meet up and talk, we ended up talking a Monday night from 9:30pm to 1:30am, and it was great, we didn't resolve anything but we just talked like we used to back then and we both agreed it was nice.
We decided to try to do it again, but all of the sudden she told me she wanted to talk to me but decided not to and ever since that, every responce I've gotten from her are just 3 word messages. She continues to say that I didn't do anything wrong, and that it was fun talking to me again, but I can't seem to make sense of why it just changed from one day to another.
Am I just oblivious? or am I missing something?
Details:
So about 2.5 years ago I met this girl (lets call her Emma) and we just clicked and ended up taking quite a lot. At the time I was in a really long distance relationship, so I didn't really think of her in any romantic way, but more as a friend.
About half a year later my girlfriend and I broke up, and me and Emma started to flirt quite a a lot, and I realised I liked her, which should have been great since I thought she like me too. Problem is I have some issues, mainly trouble with sustaining meaningful relationships of any kind, so I decided to stop talking to her, which I know is a bad decision, but at the time I thought it was the right thing to do for me, and I can't change it now so it is what it is.
I recently reached out to her again, because I just generally miss talking to her. In the time we didn't talk, she's gotten a boyfriend and all in all seem to be doing really well, which is great, im happy for her, but as mentioned I just miss talking to her, so I dont strive to date her or anything. Anyway we decided to meet up and talk, we ended up talking a Monday night from 9:30pm to 1:30am, and it was great, we didn't resolve anything but we just talked like we used to back then and we both agreed it was nice.
We decided to try to do it again, but all of the sudden she told me she wanted to talk to me but decided not to and ever since that, every responce I've gotten from her are just 3 word messages. She continues to say that I didn't do anything wrong, and that it was fun talking to me again, but I can't seem to make sense of why it just changed from one day to another.
Am I just oblivious? or am I missing something?
