Just now I came across a post that was talking about whether or not a husband should trust his wife to go on a girls trip by themselves
And as I scroll through the responses by so many women, there was the very common answer that you here all the time to almost every scenario
" you should trust your girl" or some version of that, like " why are you with someone if you can't trust them?", or " be with someone you trust, or don't get married"
And while in a vacuum yes, all of these statements are true statements. Within the context of the topic they're over simplified to the point of no longer being true.
There is a balance between having Trust in someone and someone showing you they are worthy of said trust. It's my opinion, that a girl who puts herself in a position for bad things to happen, to be tempted, or otherwise put the relationship at risk that the mere Act of doing that she is proving herself not to be trustworthy
Having a girls night out to the club or bar or a girls trip to party in another city without your man is putting yourself in a position for something to happen with another man. Especially if you're going with single friends, or your friend is trying to cheat
In my opinion a girl who is trustworthy, if she genuinely wants to go on a trip to another town or another country that she'll try and bring you along as her man. Because she wants to experience that with you
She doesn't want these other men being all over her comma because she would rather have you all over her period that's loyal female behavior. And if you can't go on the trip, then you can't go and perhaps in specific circumstances you might send her on that trip and safely trust that nothing will happen
But as a general rule as a man your girl should not be going on the single girl trips to live the single life. And if she is consistently it's because she doesn't respect enough as a man.
And as I scroll through the responses by so many women, there was the very common answer that you here all the time to almost every scenario
" you should trust your girl" or some version of that, like " why are you with someone if you can't trust them?", or " be with someone you trust, or don't get married"
And while in a vacuum yes, all of these statements are true statements. Within the context of the topic they're over simplified to the point of no longer being true.
There is a balance between having Trust in someone and someone showing you they are worthy of said trust. It's my opinion, that a girl who puts herself in a position for bad things to happen, to be tempted, or otherwise put the relationship at risk that the mere Act of doing that she is proving herself not to be trustworthy
Having a girls night out to the club or bar or a girls trip to party in another city without your man is putting yourself in a position for something to happen with another man. Especially if you're going with single friends, or your friend is trying to cheat
In my opinion a girl who is trustworthy, if she genuinely wants to go on a trip to another town or another country that she'll try and bring you along as her man. Because she wants to experience that with you
She doesn't want these other men being all over her comma because she would rather have you all over her period that's loyal female behavior. And if you can't go on the trip, then you can't go and perhaps in specific circumstances you might send her on that trip and safely trust that nothing will happen
But as a general rule as a man your girl should not be going on the single girl trips to live the single life. And if she is consistently it's because she doesn't respect enough as a man.
