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I have a huge crush on a guy at work, and he has given me signs that the crush is mutual (holding strong eye contact, acting flustered during compliments, always smiling when talking to me, teasing me etc)

For morning and afternoon break, I sit at a table situated in front of the entrance to the reception/canteen. Next to where I sit, there is a small corridor with a water dispenser. Yesterday and today for afternoon break, I saw him walk in front of the entrance with his colleagues to go to the benches to sit outside. Both times, he came through the entrance and started talking to me. I could see that his water bottle was significantly full (about two thirds/three quarters) but he still went to the water dispenser to fill it up.

Could he have been using his water bottle as an excuse to come and approach me?

I was chatting with my crush today and I may be reading too much into it, but I feel like he sort of inadvertently hinted that he finds me beautiful.

We were chatting about random stuff and we got onto the subject of makeup (random, I know). I was saying how I take makeup on holiday but I don’t really wear it that often. I then said (as a joke), “I like to think I’m naturally beautiful”

My crush then said, “exactly, exactly” but he avoided eye contact as he said it and he had a smile on his face.

There was a similar situation a month or so ago where he said he doesn’t like talking to other people because he can’t be bothered. I said, “I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me then” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours” and when he said this, he looked away smiling.

Does his reaction indicate that he thinks I’m beautiful?

So I have three examples of when I think my crush was complimenting me

1) He was telling me that he can’t be bothered to talk to other people. I said, “well I must be pretty awesome if you’re talking to me” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours”. However, when he said this, he didn’t make eye contact when normally he holds eye contact

2) He was saying that his mum didn’t like his beard, and he said to her “I’m half of you so I have your looks”. I said, “I’m glad that I didn’t get my dads beak of a nose, I have my mums eyes” and he replied with, “you’re blessed then”

3) He was talking about how exotic the weather was. I said, “I’d put my bikini on but think everyone would be visually offended”. As soon as I said this, he started to walk off, but he smiled and said “you’re chatting shit, you are”

Was he complimenting me in these situations and was he subtly hinting that he finds me attractive?

I was chatting with my crush yesterday. For context, he holds strong eye contact with me, teases me (we have a couple of inside jokes), he will stand close to me, we glance at each other from across the room etc etc etc.

The other day, I made a joke about not being able to run because I’d give myself two black eyes (a joke about my large breasts) and he looked away and belly laughed, which I think was a flustered reaction.

He then made a comment about me being blessed when I said I inherited my mums eyes and not my dad’s nose.

Yesterday, he was saying about how exotic the weather is. I argued and said it’s not, and he said “it’s balmy”. Sarcastically, I said “I’ll strip down to my bikini then, although the owner of the company wouldn’t be very impressed”. My crush then said “he won’t see you”.

And then, I said “I think everyone would be visually offended” and he smiled, walked away and said as walking away “you’re talking shit, you are”

What did he mean by this comment? Was he indirectly saying he finds me attractive?

I have a huge crush on a guy and we get on well. We always make strong eye contact and most mornings he says good morning to me first. I sometimes catch him staring at me.

This morning, I noticed that he has more or less shaved his beard off.

I complimented him and said it looks nice. He said “thank you” but then kept saying he didn’t like it, his mum doesn’t like it etc. as if to seek constant reassurance. He said that he’d said to his mum “I am half of you so I have your looks”.

I said that I’m glad I don’t have my dad’s nose because it’s a beak. I then said I have my mums eyes.

He said “you’re blessed then”

Was he subtly complimenting my looks? Does he think I’m attractive? What did he mean?

I was chatting with my crush who often holds eye contact and smiles a lot when we interact. He also seems nervous around me but will stand real close to me.

Today, we were chatting and he more or less confirmed that he doesn’t like talking to other people because he “can’t be bothered”.

I said, “well I must be awesome if you’re talking to me” and he said “yes, absolutely, you passed the test with flying colours” but when he said this, he couldn’t look me in the eye, and he normally holds strong eye contact and will glance at my lips.

Was he flirting, could he like me? What does this mean?