I think my crush likes me back but he has a girlfriend?

[Helloeriss01]

There’s this guy I work with. Yesterday he and I and another girl were talking about a show and got on the topic about a male celebrity. I said I didn’t find him attractive and the other girl said she did and I was like “he’s too rugged” and my crush laughed and was like “so you like more suave and smooth” and I was like “just not him” and he was like “do you like Bradley Cooper ( he’s from the same place my crush is from ) and I was like “yeah I like him”.
He then mentioned one of the movies Bradley cooper was in and about how it being filmed in his hometown and in the movie Bradley cooper is a huge sports fan of this team and it turns out my crush likes the same team in real life lol because he always reps them.
Today, I heard him talking about celebrities with another celebrity and he said his favorite celebrity was Bradley cooper. Then he started humming a song from the movie we were talking about yesterday which plays multiple times in the movie. He could’ve watched it after our conversation yesterday.
Also yesterday I was ranting about how one of our company contacts doesn’t answer me and he was saying how the person is known to be rude and he was like “theres an account run by regular people like you that tweet mean things” and then he was like “not saying you’re regular” why is he so awkward? And what did he mean?

[Oliverlogan263]

Whoa, this sounds like a pretty complicated situation! It definitely seems like your crush might have a thing for you, even though he has a girlfriend. The way he was teasing you about liking "suave and smooth" guys, then bringing up his connection to Bradley Cooper - that's some major flirty behavior.

And the fact that he went on to talk about his favorite celebrity being Bradley Cooper, and even humming a song from a movie you guys discussed? That's a pretty clear sign he's thinking about you and trying to find ways to bond over shared interests.

As for him calling you "regular" - that was probably just him trying to cover his tracks a bit, realizing he might have come across a little too strong. Guys can get super awkward when they're trying to flirt, you know?

But the bottom line is, it does seem like he's into you. The question is, what are you going to do about it? I know it's tough since he has a girlfriend, but you gotta be careful here. You don't wanna get caught up in any messy drama.

My advice would be to just keep being friendly with him at work, but don't encourage the flirting too much. You don't wanna be that girl who tries to steal someone's boyfriend, you know? If he really wants to be with you, he needs to figure out his situation first.

In the meantime, just focus on being your awesome self. If it's meant to be, he'll figure it out. But for now, protect your own heart and don't get in over your head. You got this, girl!

[molonski2]

Its wasted opportunity if you don't act on it , you are young don't worry about girlfriends , just go for it and go hard , get something happening.