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I tend to attract much younger women easier than women my own age. I had a fling going on with a 22 year old a few months ago. I’ve been recently texted up a 21 year old but swings from interested to flighty.

This has its advantages and disadvantages. On one end I’ll admit younger girls are usually hotter, more energetic and fun. Ironically I can be less guarded with some of my own vulnerabilities AFTER I establish a connection. I notice women closer to my age seem to get smart in the wrong ways (they find flaws quickly, fixate on them and reject prematurely).

But on the flip side I have to be very careful with younger women when it comes to avoid “the creep“ vibe. It’s just too easy to just say one wrong thing in beginning and it’s game over. It doesn’t matter if it’s intentional or not. I can’t get away saying a fraction of things I used to say in my youth.

But then I get worried about coming off as boring. Yes younger women like maturity in older guys but I got to be playful. But again it’s a pain in the ass that I have to be careful about joking around (e. g. sexual stuff). I was never the type to use pick up lines or make sexual comments right away but still. How would you like an older attractive guy to start a conversation with you?

Whenever I was dealing with problems with women my friends usually told me to act stoic, tough or I like I don’t give a shit (usually good advice). Confront the problem directly/quickly and then back off and do my thing. This often includes just not contacting her if she’s being unfair.

However a few have chastised me if I was acting douchy in my youth. I did have one friend chew me out in one of the rare moments I was in the wrong and he witnessed it. Again it was a very rare incident.

Anyway guys really don’t like to hear other guys bitch too much (in person) about women. Although it’s often healthy and necessary but the act itself can come off as feminine if it happens too much.

However I’ve noticed that women usually have a more tainted lens and assume the worst about the other guy when they give advice to women. Some of this is just natural given the loyalty/protectiveness they have for other women. This is also at times justified. Sometimes the other guy really is being a dbag and the girl shouldn’t tolerate it.

However women sometimes give tainted advice as way to get revenge on a 3rd party guy because they themselves were hurt by an unrelated incident at some point. As if seeing a friend being bitchy to another guy it’s somehow “evening the score” by proxy. Or they might even do this out of secret jealousy. They would feel better if their friend was single/lonely since they are unhappy with their own predicament. They would encourage a break up.

Thoughts?