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Search Results: what attracts you
When you’re attracted to someone, do you become more charming or more awkward around them?
I feel like some people flirt better when they actually like someone. They get playful… confident…smooth. And then some people start overthinking every word. They’ll start laughing weird, avoiding eye contact snd acting...
7Phoenix7
Guru Age: 35 
How can I reassure my insecure long-distance boyfriend that I only want him?
My long distance boyfriend recently expressed that he is worried that I will find someone closer to me. He said that he wants to be with me forever, but understands if I don’t want to wait on him to move to my city. He...
Anonymous
(36-45) I’m 18 and he’s 35 — is that too big of an age gap to date?
I’m 18. I saw this cute guy on a dating app and we matched, but I’m not sure if he’s too old or not. I know a lot of people would probably respond “date somebody your own age”, but I’m not attracted to people my own age I...
Anonymous
(18-24) Does being thinner attract fewer but ‘higher quality’ men?
At my heaviest as a woman I’ve been 145lbs and my lowest has been 90lbs I am 5’1 so pretty short. I personally thought my lowest weight was a perfect weight for my body. And I began to notice changes with how people...
Anonymous
(18-24) Do you think there really is 'someone out there for everyone?' ?
In general I would think so. Someone deemed unattractive to some can be very attractive to others. And like for like seems to attract (a goth person with another goth for example but can be mixed). However I imagine there...
Crimsyjo
Guru Age: 47 If you’re not attracted to them, why is flirting still so fun?
Someone you aren't getting something for free from, like a hairstylist. You are paying them and tipping them. But you still like to flirt. Why is that fun? Occasionally you will get someone that takes you seriously and...
Parakeeta
Xper 7 Age: 32 
Siajanua2027
Xper 6 Age: 30 Women being attracted to other women?
Is it normal that pretty much every woman has some sort of attraction for another woman that they find nice looking? I’m not talking about oh she’s pretty. I’m talking about some sort of attraction with excitement but the...
Anonymous
(45 Plus) Can a married man go his whole life without being attracted to other women?
Everything is in the title
Anonymous
(36-45) Why would a man repeatedly cheat on the mother of his child like this?
a little backstory I was in a long-term relationship for 4 1/2 years we were supposed to get married, but he ended up cheating on me multiple times we got pregnant and we separated at three months postpartum. he got...
Anonymous
(25-29) Should I date my 50-year-old dog walking friend with a big age gap?
I started walking little pekingese fifi around 4 weeks ago on the local beach as the weather is starting to improve and I thought it be nice. One morning a staffy came running towards fifi. Fifi is only little and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Girls, have YOU ever rejected a guy because in your mind you felt he was too feminine and not masculine enough?
Like there was something about them whether its the way they talk, walk around, carry themselves, certain actions, whatever it was they just seemed too feminine to you and weren't attracted because of that?
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
Could a white man be attracted to a black woman but wouldn’t date her because of his family/ friends?
What if a white guy finds a black woman interesting and he’s intrigued by her but can’t “take it there”… out of fear or status so he sticks to white women
Anonymous
(25-29) Do you act defensive or sharp with women you’re attracted to but can’t have?
For example, with a woman you can’t have cause either you are already in a relationship with someone else or the woman is a colleague or boss…etc
Anonymous
(36-45) Why does the internet attract the worst people?
It's not only just online dating. Even places like reddit are filled with the worst people: manipulators who lead people on for months to get attention, men who don't respect women, people, friends who flake the last...
Anonymous
(25-29) How are these men attracted to me when I’m not their usual type?
3 guys have married/ committed to are blonde white women and they mostly follow white women with blonde hair/ skinny…. I’m the opposite a tad thick, different complexion … they don’t even follow women that look like me on...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why are aging women praised as attractive while aging men are mocked?
People want to pretend middle aged and old women are still hot and desirable, while middle aged and old men are disgusting and nobody wants them. I personally think men age better than women, and I am attracted to older...
Mastergirl
Xper 4 Age: 30 Why did this guy ditch our first date like that and should I feel embarrassed?
So I ended up going out with the guy I made a post about yesterday. This man has been begging me for a date so I decided to go. I canceled on him yesterday cause he was too last minute, when it came to the details. So i...
Anonymous
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