When you’re attracted to someone, do you become more charming or more awkward around them?

Question

I feel like some people flirt better when they actually like someone. They get playful… confident…smooth.

And then some people start overthinking every word. They’ll start laughing weird, avoiding eye contact snd acting like they’ve never spoken to another human before lol.

which one are you?

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

LOL, I'm normally a closed door to most people. I do not encourage interaction 95% of the time. So if I'm interacting with you in a social situation, yes, you've done something to get my attention. Looks, sense of style, playfulness, wit, confidence, kindness, etc.

And yes, I can flip on the charm and playfulness at will. But no, I don't get awkward or nervous around anyone. I go from the silent guy not interacting to the guy who will give you smirk and a vague compliment that may have been an insult... wait what, which one was it? Then I'll wait to see how you play. How confident or defensive you are. If you can play, we're off to the races, LOL. If your playful insults make me think twice, I'll bring down my walls with you. You're not afraid to offend me.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I become all five of those but there's an added one that I need to add and the real me comes out too because I do like to flirt with the person that I'm with I do like to be a smart-ass I do like to laugh and I see funny things and everything and I will bring it to attention because it can be so funny but yeah I'm all the above plus more

queenofcardio · Accepted Answer

A mixture of both, depending on how well he is responding to my flirting. If he’s laughing along with me and naturally bringing himself closer to me, then I bring my A-game. My charming side comes out in full force. I’ll say the most random things just to make him laugh, and it’s so much better when he participates in the playful banter. We’re also easily communicating through our body language.

If he’s not responding well to me, then my light does get a little dimmer. It makes me doubt even flirting with him. If he’s not attempting to put any effort into the exchange, then it starts to become awkward. I don’t typically mesh well with someone who has lackluster energy. Some input and effort are needed.

bobalife · Accepted Answer

Both. I am more bold and flirty. But I’m also really awk and shy if my heart is fluttering a lot.. it just depends

Master_Debator · Answer

I become more inclined to show them my penis. They say "Wow, I had a horrible day at work today" and I just pull out my penis.  Works almost every time, all of the time.

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

Uhhhhhh, I like to think I can hide my awkwardness, and I certainly get more... "charmeur", sorry, switching to french momentarily because "charming" is an ambiguous term for me, because I don't know if it means "charming someone" or "being named charming" lol

Tarifa · Answer

Awkward, stunbling for words... you name it. By the time I relax, she already knows I'm really into her.

Tomislav7 · Answer

Somethings you say just flow naturally other times same person can be laboring to find the right words. Like making music, some songs you can create within minutes others you work tirelessly to create.

sage2021 · Answer

I kinda get where I'm like... let me entertain you... let me make you smile.🙂

exitseven · Answer

I have been known to do the stupidest things possible,. It is almost like I am trying to sabotage myself.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I am very forward, which most people assume is flirting, but it is not really. That is just me. Whether that is charming or not is for others to judge.

MrChinaski · Answer

I tend to talk too much. I guess some of it is charming.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Now i act normal... In the past i was shy, nervous awkward, malfunction, you name it and i have it 🤣🤣

AydenHazor · Answer

I usually get more awkward, overthinking everything until I convince myself they could never be interested in me as anything more than a friend

AngryCarl3 · Answer

Maybe I'm charmingly awkward? Nah, I'm probably just awkward.

loveslongnails · Answer

Hmmm... my S. O. says I'm always charming. I wonder if she means I'm always flirting? I should ask her that LOL.

thegreenyogi · Answer

A bit of both but more on the charming side...

Xawyx-2 · Answer

I always get awkward and/or nervous :P

Anonymous · Answer

I think I mostly avoid them. I don't really feel like being rejected.

Anonymous · Answer

The second one, but I’m working hard on being the first one

PinkSchmetterling · Answer

Wdym? I’m always charming lol

karlaatsd · Answer

Depends I could do either way haha

WellBye · Answer

Both lol

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