Are you more likely to flirt with someone who hasn't noticed you but is the most mesmerizing person or someone who likes you but is just kinda cute?

[Jammaa]

For this question, you're all single and ready to mingle. Imagine you don't know their personalities but you have a feeling they're both good people

Hasn't noticed me but is the most mesmerizing

Likes me and is kinda cute

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I just went for compatibility when I was a bachelor so it's a two-way thing. It's important that I not only like her but she likes me. So I'm more likely to go for the second one.

That said, the first one probably wouldn't mesmerize me unless she was extraordinarily talented, for example, and I saw her performing. I usually have to talk to a woman to get mesmerized by her or at least see her talking to other people and seeing some amazing social skills.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I've mostly became desensitized to women's looks. I think there's a variety of reasons for it but one is that I often lived in very urban and fashionable areas like Burbank, LA, Tokyo, Hong Kong, etc. So just walking the streets I see great-looking women everywhere. They're a dime a dozen.

So I ceased to be so impressed by good-looking women. I do want a woman to be in decent physical health if possible or at least working towards a healthy lifestyle, but I don't really care if she's a supermodel or just an ordinary-looking healthy woman. There's very little difference to me.

Instead I become most attracted to women by having very engaging conversations or seeing ones of extraordinary talent.

[OtterMan68]

prefer the one who seems like she might be into me

[DizzyDesii]

As long as he's cute/attractive, thats good enough for this scenario. Had you said unattractive but likes me then i’d say no

[IslaTheWitch]

only with someone who wants it as much as I do :)

[Summerlazing]

I would always pick likes you and is kinda cute.

Personally I prefer cute over mesmerising anyway, but why would you flirt with someone who clearly isn’t interested in you? Flirting is only fun when they flirt back and people do that when they like you.

[Adogdog]

I'm single, and more likely to flirt with someone who I think likes me.

[NathanDavis]

I don't flirt with people, not my style...

[IslaTheWitch]

lmao

[strateguy632]

2nd,