Does being thinner attract fewer but ‘higher quality’ men?

[Anonymous]

At my heaviest as a woman I’ve been 145lbs and my lowest has been 90lbs I am 5’1 so pretty short. I personally thought my lowest weight was a perfect weight for my body. And I began to notice changes with how people especially men have treated me. At my heaviest I had a lot of men compliment me and go up to me at the gym and whatnot but I also realized that they were usually “low quality” men like men that were not necessarily providers. At my lowest I realized I attracted less men on the sense that men wouldn’t come up to me at the gym and bother me mid workout, and when a man would talk to me they were usually “higher quality” on the sense that they were more financially secure and had goals in life ontop of being a provider.

To be honest it kind of felt like a social experiment that I was running and I came to the conclusion that being heavier attracts more men that viewed me “within their league” where as thinner men viewed me “out of their league”

I want to get people’s thoughts and ideas on this topic (no hate please, these are just things I’ve noticed from lived experience) I feel like it ties into the whole current social media craze where all these celebrities and whatnot are beyond thin to the point of it looking concerning, it makes me feel that being overly thin is needed in life in order to attract people of higher quality.

[Bricealan]

I tend to be attracted to thinner women since I am thin (5'8"- 140 LBS) but that does not mean I would not go out with and enjoy a woman who was heavier than I, and I have done that. I think it depends on the woman and how I can relate with her, and she with me.

The idea of body types staying with the same body type is probably just an assumption.

I enjoy all women, not just ones that are thin- like me

[Anonymous]

As a thing man (thank you God for metabolism and Jesus Christ) lol - I sure seem to get a fair few quality women's eyes my way 👁️ 👁️

Not every woman or that many women. Yet the ones who do, they're sure seem quality women.

Yet I guess the ones who do - they're usually fit or slim and shorter - hourglass women ⌛ ⏳ (and not as wide as the Kardashians) - metabolisms must attract other metabolisms 😂

[Opinion Owner]

*Thin man - my darn typo 😈😞

[Abbycado]

I’m fit and get attention. I have a roommate that’s more curvy but not heavy. She’s beautiful and gets tons of attention.

[NicholasofAustralia]

You mean she's more hourglass or hourglass petite? Hell some women have no trouble getting attention the way seagulls find hot chips 🍟 🕊️

[NicholasofAustralia]

Just to add some funny here @Abbycado (your roommate) ⏳ "she be lookin' so fine" 🎶🎵

[NicholasofAustralia]

But looks aren't everything 💔⛓️‍💥

[Abbycado]

She is just genetically blessed. She is the only woman that if she came onto me might make me go ah, why not?

I joke, but that makes my point.

[NicholasofAustralia]

@Abbycado 👀👀👀 Lost my train of thought, choo choo, honk

[NicholasofAustralia]

@Abbycado I joke I joke. Yet hmm intriguing. Hope it's never "super awkward" super as women say to other besties or women where it's like you know - 😂 shared and what not, "damn - she even has a better body when she just whips off to dry in the dorm out of the bath shower" - lol 😆 towel to the floor or bed. As indifferent as a plant 🌵☘️

[NicholasofAustralia]

@Abbycado in conclusion though Abby - "curvy" implies she's - Kardashian versus, say, hourglass.

[NicholasofAustralia]

And hourglass to me is like feminine hips feminine shoulders small etc - yet fit or flat stomached. And just toned all up without "showing gym" 💪🏻🙃

[Abbycado]

Very much Kylie Kardashian like. She even has that jet black hair and southern Italian genetics. I know Kardashians are Greek ancestry but pretty close there.

[NicholasofAustralia]

Oh I'm not a fan but that's because I'm slender - sometimes I must make some women jealous - eats another sandwich 🥪 or delicious burger - I'm very blessed

[NicholasofAustralia]

But anyways as we all say beauty is each eyes beholder and of course you know people do you know like you they gym or they enjoy make up free or make up and all these good things :)

[NicholasofAustralia]

Someday I'll possibly need to have my own. Home gym 💪🏻

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Not fewer men, just more men. They all see you as an object no matter what

[Asker]

Yeah that’s very true

[Anonymous]

Well, regardless of your weight you still have to be a "quality" woman hun. I'm sorry you're a little thicker than you like to be. But your words suggest weight is not your real problem.

[Asker]

Interesting! I think apart of it was my mindset, which I’ve been actively working on.

[msc545]

Yeah sure. We all know that mens income is correlated with weight of the women they approach so that the lesser the woman weighs the higher the man's income is according to you, and all you really seem to give a shit about is the man's income. I hope you do a really good job of hiding this desire you have to live off a man's money because no man's going to want to have much of anything to do with you since you basically sound like a scammer.

[Asker]

Lmao trust me I don’t care about a man’s income, I have more than enough of my own money to keep me happy. Which is funny because a lot of people don’t talk about how men act when a woman has money, which from my experience is just the same as a woman looking for a man with money as well. I just thought it was interesting with the correlation of the two.

[RingOfFire]

I don't know about that but to me, at 5'1" I would prefer 90 pounds to 145. 145 is too big at that height.

[Iron_Man]

What does high-quality men have to do with you being thinner? It depends how your body looks and if you have curves and how your face looks most women At your age, are not fat, so I don’t see the big deal

[queenofcardio]

Interesting perspective

[Anonymous]

Depends on what kind of girls they like.

[In_Trance]

The law of attraction says like attracts like

[Asker]

Can you elaborate?

[In_Trance]

What particularly do you need eliberation on? Value is a perception, so I'm not sure what you mean by high value.

[Asker]

I guess what I’m meaning by high value is someone who has goals and aspirations in life and is actively working towards it rather than just being all talk

[In_Trance]

I don't see any correlation between the two