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Physical attraction can just be buit off of being a bit physical and knowing how to flirt, but with someone that's compatible with. To think you're unattractive because you're skinny or short is just ridiculous.
I did have a 9.5 out of 10 on hot or not until they dropped the ratings system. Even though I think of myself as below average... I have to accept that maybe I have something.
I don't have a gift of gab... but I still had chicks taller than me chasing me when my buddies were busy trying to learn salesmanship if you know what I'm saying.
Cards get dealt... we just play them.
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I have. All of my ex’s have been submissive and I slept with all of them. by the way, I can’t physically fuck them, they’re the ones who fuck me.
@Nikola99
Sure, but I think that is rare for a guy to be unable to put on an average level of muscle mass and worst case scenario you could still take steroids. Not ideal, but I think its a lot safer/easier than chaging your height which as far as I am aware can only be done by undergoing an incredibly painful, expensive, and risky surgery where they cut your legs in half and force them to lengthen to reconnect.
Yeah but its still the not that you can do something about your weight if you stay skinny no metter how mich you eat.
Steroids are pretty much the same thing as hight thing
No, they do not. Not even me. That's how so many people are insecure, miserable, and have problems that effects how they view themselves and should be loved. People do that for akudatuo because they lack self love.
@gullryvia
Nobody is unattractive. Just unattractive hearts, minds, and desires. Never look at the physical, see the spiritual. The body deteriorates and fade.
"Never look at the physical, see the spiritual." hahahahahaha where do you live? Mars? Men and women both look at the body first. And even they assume their personalitybased on looks. It's called halo effect. Looks is 80% personality is only 20%. If you are too short, too skinny or ugly most women won't look at you. They want tall, handsome, muscular fit, confident men. Always. If they can't get that they will try to get the close to that.
Asker, when no chick pays attention to you or want you, don't complain. Nobody owes you anything. And if they don't like it and they don't like you. And stop talking that garbage about majority women want tall and muscular guys. That is so untrue
And I honestly do not give a rat's behind with other women claim they want or do. I care about what I do and how I treat other people. You don't want somebody who's simply just wants your looks for your personality. That's why so many people end up with bad Partners or they can't take care of the ones that they got. You want to be one of those small asked to act like a robot, can you be a robot. When you still can't find somebody who's really attracted and want to get to know you, don't complain about what a woman wants. apparently you don't know what woman is about. Women are taught to desire that in a man, that doesn't mean that's exactly what they personally want that's what it always end up with the opposite of what they say they want.
So desperate for attention, that's why so many you don't get looked at because it's unattractive. I don't look at body first. Let somebody look at body first that's why they cheat body first. That's why I wouldn't want to date because you guys got this crazy mentality like you're entitled to us and you're not. Grow up. Because of everything what you saying is so true you would have had somebody by now.
My father is short, my late mother was around 6'0, she still dared, married him, and had me and almost more children had she not had miscarriages. You sound too toxic. Instead of claiming woe is me, take responsibility of your own actions.
I don't feel entitled for women i don't care what women think about me i'm just saying simple biological facts. Truth is truth. Tall, handsome, muscular, confident guys are attractive. Short, thin, insecure or too nice guys are unattractive. You can be most badass, asshole but if you are tall, muscular you will always have girls although women even like aggressive badass attitude. If you are short thin or ugly doesn't matter your personality most women won't even look at you. Doesn't matter how you see the world or whether you are cool or desperate. Looks comes first then personality.
That is not biological facts. That's just your attitude and that's why you don't have no one in your life but you to actually think something so stupid. Please take that toxicity somewhere else. Because I'm sorry if that's the way how you think, then that's how you think. Don't try to talk about how somebody else isn't done. Because that is not truth. I don't do it, and I know people who don't either.
And the fact that you weren't about most women is ugly stupid because that's how many you can't get with women. I know of people who are short, think and so called lanky and still found partners and or got married. So dumb.
And if you're trying to chase after the wrong kind of person of course you're going to be rejected. Prom would you people you don't know how to communicate with others, your values don't align with other people, and your standards are far too low. There were plenty of guys on both sides of the spectrum that I rejected. And looks did not play a role.
OMG... that's small... especially when he got a 6'0 tall wife!! That's a big height difference..7 inches taller!
Why did you not get taller genes
My mom was 5'9. My guess is that my father's genes are more dominate. My sister is short too. My mother is on the rare side on her family. She passed away 4 years ago so it's just me and him. Lots of people made fun of her when she was alive. But my father didn't care about that. And she was always attracted to Shorter men. So what the asker is saying is a lot of crock.
Very rarely do women like shorter men... that's a fact. That's a biological thing ingrained in the mind of a female. They want someone taller and bigger...
Even short women don't want someone their height , taller women obviously want someone at least her height... and built.
Would you like to date someone 5'2 or so?
And add to it if he was skin my as well...
by the way why did people make fun of your tall mom instead of his short heights?
It's not that very rarely women like short of men. It's the fact that again it has to do with how we are genetically due to our ancestors sexual choices. Personally no matter how hard I try I cannot find myself to be attracted to somebody shorter than me. Not because I don't like their height or anything like that, or that I do not find him sexually attractive. But that is just something about them that makes me see them as a little brother instead of somebody that I can technically find as a partner. But that does not mean that if I had a similar value to a person that I wouldn't give it a shot, but I know that it definitely probably wouldn't work out romantically wise.
Plus, both of my parents always got made fun of growing up. In a lot that actually made fun of my mother was actually the women. But most of those seem hypocritical women are the same women that rejected my father years ago. Now that my mother passed away, those same women are now trying to look for him. The difference is that my father had to earn the respect of his fellow peers. My mother did not earn that respect until sadly her passing, when my father started declaring that he couldn't find himself wanting to be with other women after her. Even though what they had was domestically abusive and toxic oh, and is a marriage that never should have happened. One thing I can actually say, he never did try it again after most of that.
The key word is having respect, understand what makes you up as a person, but do not disrespect others who are different from you. Growing up I never fully understood that either. But nonetheless I was happy with our quirky family. Without the abuse of course. I at least be honest with people. Plus I don't date somebody I've never been friends with for a long time anyway.
See even you can't/won't date someone shorter...
by the way how tall should a guy at least be for you to like him?
But my reasons are not the same as other people. I wouldn't date somebody very tall either. I can like anybody. But romantically wise, intimately I can't. It is not that I wouldn't. Something inside me says no. If that person is at least between 5'4 And 5'7, I'm fine. Which most guys are anyway. Over 5'8, no go either. I need to feel comfortable with the person.
Plus I don't want to end up hurting a person just because I can't get over the fact that shorter than me or too tall. They don't deserve that.
Plus I found out trough observation, that people are usually the most happiest when they are dating people around their own height. So never try to date somebody who's being very unrealistic. Because I guarantee you more than half of the stuff that the Asker was talking about and what you're even saying are people with unrealistic expectations. At least mines are realistic.
Just 5'4 is also appealing to you? That's just an inch... means you can easily be taller than him if he is barefoot and you are in normal shoes
It's not that it's appealing to me. It's overall a height that I am comfortable with. I don't have types of preference.
No. Never. I ain't looking to get bunions. I have enough problems with my feet or back. The only ones I wear is the fashion boots with 1 inch full heel. None of that steledo crap. Ugh! Looks like you can stab somebody with it.
1 inch is very normal even for a man's shoe!
Do you prefer men your height because you have back and feet issues and hence is harder to reach them out?
No. It has nothing to do with my physical health. It doesn't seem romantic to me to want to be with a person that doesn't naturally make me want to date close to them. When my mother was alive, she had a presence about her that Drew me to her as if she was my comfort as a child. The same presence never left me even as an adult. I knew that it was something spiritually about her that I had to find in other people. I got to be able to know that person on a soul level. By me being petite and small as is it won't feel the same way. I got to be able to feel the same comfort it has nothing to do with the physical. If I can I sent that within a person, I'm less likely to want to be attached and grow near them. I attach easily.
Though I do believe that it's only 30% of it. Those small things cam sadly make a person lose attraction. And it's never wise to force it even if you want to. That's like trying to force somebody to like somebody who smells like sewage.
Yep. I am. Hardly muscle on me. Always been the athletic type. But have some muscle exercising. I can eat most things and still not pick up weight. If a guy is too strong and muscular he make crush me. And I already struggle with asthma and that's scary.
That's why I said that height and overall physical appearance have nothing to do with it. It's just an excuse for people to judge others harshly for physical attributes most didn't asked to be born with. It's about comfort. Women wants to feel safe and secure. A lanky and thin guy may makr her feel the same way depending on the girl or woman. A girl or woman that solely just wants some guy to have a six pack or being muscular and Tall, 9/10x are only interested in him because they want sex. That's all. And many of them are only influenced by other women who are just as toxic. Their just fickle. Plus, a guy can always build muscle. But he should only do to take care of his health. Not to try to attract women into his life. He'll just be their fantasy and not somebody they want to love. Just stating facts. Let that person gain a gut belly which is part of life and watch how she lose her attraction that easily. Why go after a person or allow that person into your life who is just about your body? Makes no sense to me. 🤷♀️
I know I'm not perfect , but my self-esteem is not so low to the point I got to use my body to seek validation, and so-called love from a man who don't even know who I am for my heart. A body is just a vessel. Your not a soulless puppet. Remember that you were human at the end of the day.
Their fine. That's a good range. And of that person is petite, who cares? He can't change that. But, just because that person is that that still doesn't guarantee I want to be involved with them. I know better to befriend people first and get to know who they are as a person and to know whether or not we are compatible. Personality and the physical comes very last on that list. That's how serious I take it. Because looks can be very deceiving and anybody can fake a personality.
No. I never had an issue attracting guys. Even at my age now. But a sense of humor and fun personality goes a long way with me. My man now is 5'6. I've dated tall, average, and short.
But I can't help but be really attracted to men with meat on them. The guy in the pic above looks so skinny.
I'm not a really skinny woman and understand that some men wouldn't be attracted to me because of it. Everyone has preferences.
Luckily my hot short sexy man loves my curviness so it works out.
What I would do if I was a super skinny man is drink protein shakes and work out some. Just like I watch what I eat and exercise to keep from getting obese. Everyone can better themselves.
How? You're Dutch, so you're probably taller than most men on the planet. You're basically a dude yourself.
there are different tastes for different people. Some men like fat women. Some like stick thin women. Some like Asian women while others don't. Some men like women 25 years older than them. There really is no one thing that people like
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, ever heard of that saying?
There are some men who think I'm gorgeous and beautiful while some men think I'm average.
There is no universal beautiful. You can only learn this through life experience
@RayJayBlaze skinny legs are fine. I just like thin guys in general. And no shaved legs on a guy are weird in my opinion.
I suppose thin legs would look better shaven even on men rather than having curly coarse hairs
@gullryvia Eh, at the moment I'd say average. I could stand to lose another 5-10 lbs.
@gullryvia I actually used to be self conscious about being too tall! Don't worry, there's nothing wrong with your height!
@gullryvia No, there isn't anything wrong with it. People come in all sorts of heights!
It sucks ☹️😔 to know that even an average female is quite taller than you despite being a male
Most women would be intimidated to be with a guy like that. It's like those scrawny Victoria secret models. They're plastered everywhere as the face of beauty but most guys aren't into that. That's just what Hollywood thinks looks the best
Sure you have. I've seen the opposite, plus polls on this stuff happens all the time. You're asking the question on G@G, guess what. Most girls on G@G don't want a big guy
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