Why would a man repeatedly cheat on the mother of his child like this?

[Anonymous]

a little backstory I was in a long-term relationship for 4 1/2 years we were supposed to get married, but he ended up cheating on me multiple times we got pregnant and we separated at three months postpartum. he got another one pregnant when he cheated on me with and then he asked me to come back to be a family again in the whole time I was there he was cheating on me still when all I’ve done was take care of the house initiate sex clean take care of the dogs. Take care of the kids and he just paid the bills. He doesn’t bond with our kid he does the bare minimum he says it’s not. I’m not attractive, but I was attractive enough to get pregnant now he’s paying women to get pregnant. I found out he’s back on Tinder asking women to get pregnant. He dropped me off at my family‘s house and went on a date. Didn’t even apologize just said who told you and his parents are disrespecting. My child was only 11 months old I think he’s crazy never been in a situation like this somehow he thinks he’s a victim no matter what I do. Nothing is good enough. He’s never gonna be attracted to me and that’s fine. I know my worth My point is I’m very angry at this man and I wanna know is he crazy why would you cheat on the mother of your child multiple times and lie her face multiple times I wanna know why a man would do this to someone. It’s quite evil and I just need answers

[Anonymous]

Ok sure he sounds crazy, out of control. But what’s that’s at about you that you’re still with him that you would endure multiple times he cheated. He’s doing it cause you’re letting him. By letting him I mean you keep taking him back. He never really liked you that way in the beginning. More than likely the baby was a mistake. He was just trying to get up in you which he did. But he had no Norton’s of ever marrying you. At your age w a child it’s going to be hard to even find someone. But too you need to cut this dude lose.

[Master_Debator]

Don't think he was ready to settle down... and he doesn't seem all that smart, just getting women pregnant like that without much forethought.

Is he one of those ghetto guys or something...

I mean, it's not that difficult to just not get someone pregnant. But what am I talking about, he's dumb af if you're even finding out about the cheating. You should take some credit though... you're the one fucking around with this sort of guy. You get what you fucking deserve.

[Asker]

he's a doctor lol

[Master_Debator]

Doctors are the biggest dumbasses I know...6 years of college just to use WebMD like I do and still can't do basic math. If you tell me you're a hair dresser... you're my fucking neighbors I just moved away from on the East coast... probably not, the world isn't that small. But if it was that small... I'd be asking why your husband was on the porch yelling at you that everything is going to be okay in his boxers.

Probably not though so I will move on. Besides RI was a small world... no way you were my neighbor in a pretty upscale neighborhood. Anyways...

You guys gotta be Indian or somthing... a Kenyan or nigerian doctor? I'm asking you to make this make sense... can you please?

[NoDecision]

Because he really give a shit about you, and frankly, you are dumb staying with this loser. Just make sure he pays child support. If all the women he got pregnant sued him for child support, then maybe he would keep it in his shorts.

HE IS AN A#1 LOSER!

[Nikki1989]

Many men are hardwired to cheat and some women are too easy to forgive them for it.

[LazerBean]

Because he's a cheater and you keep rewarding him for it.

[Tomislav7]

seems like he's acting out. Not sure what you should do but its definitely disrespectful to you and your child

[Anonymous]

That’s a real shame very immature guy bad policy

[itsannalee]

Because the child’s mom keeps forgiving him

[Zionne]

that an awful situation...

[jahaims]

He is broken trash obviously