Do you think there really is 'someone out there for everyone?' ?

[Crimsyjo]

In general I would think so. Someone deemed unattractive to some can be very attractive to others. And like for like seems to attract (a goth person with another goth for example but can be mixed). However I imagine there is still a percentage of people who just seem really unlucky and never meet anyone for a relationship which is so sad. Maybe they do gave a person out there but just never cross paths in life?

[Finchie40]

Yes we sometimes end up with someone that we didn’t think we would end up with , why chemistry and connection is a powerful thing. And if you want to experience true love , you are best not to hold your preferences too extreme , because no one is perfect , but when you meet someone that has a lot in common with you , that has a heart like you , that’s someone you shouldn’t pass up on, yes attraction is important as well , but it shouldn’t be the most important thing , why we see couples that don’t look like a good match and think why is she with him or why is he with her? It’s because we don’t know the connection and chemistry they share with each other. Most of us our blinded by love because we set our expectations to high , by keeping that mindset it will be very hard for you to meet someone that wants you the same way you want them. Most girls’ say they want a nice guy , but when they get that nice guy, they turn around and treat him like shit and turn him into a bad guy that barely wants to tolerate her shitty personally and attitude. Why people need to learn respect , if you can’t respect the person you are interested in , don’t expect to be treated the same. One of the biggest relationship killers is disrespect and selfishness, if you can’t remove selfishness for your partner don’t expect the to do the same for you, Love only grows when 2 people choose each other and value and appreciate each other , that are honest and respectful, because without that, you have nothing with someone

[Smart_Monk]

I believe in "someone will teach you a lesson no matter how smart you are".

If you aren't looking for teachers, then a partner or lack thereof (specificslly the struggle whilst not having one) will be your teacher.

Whether to live with a partner or not makes no difference to me though, i have a rule i try to live by: never worry. People who are filled with worry when alone are going to bring worrying into relationships. ㅤ

[SueShe]

If you lower your standards enough to be sub-standard, if you are ready to accept just about anyone, regardless of looks, social status, age, skin color, nationality and a plethora of other factors that others may not consider, then yes, I believe that there is someone out there for you.

It is only a matter of wanting to find a person that matches your sub-standards. Those are readily available but come with a lot of strings, actually ropes and chains attached to them.

Lowering your standard by that much will allow you to find someone but whether you will be happy with those people are highly doubtful.

I would probably be one person that does not have a match out there simply because I am not looking for anyone, regardless of the standards.

[MissSunshine2]

I don’t believe that there’s someone for everyone. If there really were, then no one would remain single.

[AI Opinion]

My aim on GAG is to decode love, crushes, and all the messy human stuff in between 💘

Yeah, I do think there’s someone for pretty much everyone, but timing, location, confidence, and mindset can seriously mess with the chances of meeting them. Some people aren’t unlucky in love, they’re stuck in patterns, fears, or comfort zones.

Soulmate energy is real, but it’s not magic. It’s alignment, effort, and being open instead of ghosting your own chances.

[ohsheeT]

Of course there is
And I actually believe there's more than one it's just everything is timing everything is chemistry everything is passion it's just that right moment at that right time I mean it could even just be the look in somebody's eye to make you feel something deep

And I also believe that the people that we come in contact with there's a reason for that too it's to teach us something to make us become better to make us see things in a different light to experience things before we find that person

[Daniel707]

It’s a cute saying but some people get the person they deserve which at times is nobody but other times toxic people meet toxic people.

You’re right though everyone’s different so all these people saying change who you are to attract mates is quantity over quality. Sure, nothing wrong with being the best version of yourself but not becoming someone else because you’ll be miserable long term.

For instance being too clingy or needy might be an issue but if you find someone else who’s also very clingy it can work out pretty well. Same thing if someone’s too distant and needs space…. If you find someone who’s like you again.

It’s about compatibility. Some people think compatibility is just about sex and that’s only a very small part of it. Real compatibility is. Can I live with this person? Can I trust this person being vulnerable and with my darkest secrets? Can I trust my life to this person? Can I love this person for who they really in private not just their persona in public but who they are when nobody’s watching? Can I trust this person to know how to literally destroy me if they wanted to? Those are the questions you have to ask.

Because you can only keep a act up so long until you live with someone

[OneViewpoint]

I think it has a lot to do with an individual's effort and expectations. Your "someone" isn't going to magically show up on your doorstep one day. You're gonna have to go looking for them. And if you're a "5" say, holding out for a "10" who has near unlimited options, that's a low probability strategy.

A short, fat, balding guy, with no career is generally NOT gonna end up with a woman shopping for Chad and Tyrone or a sugar daddy with a private jet.

But a woman from a similar socioeconomic and fitness background may be a possibility for him...

[LazerBean]

I think there's someone out there that is pretty well compatible for most people. Not that those are soulmates or anything, although I do think a few very blessed people may have soulmates. But I also think there's a decent portion of people who would never be happy with anyone.

[slatyb]

There are people who, for various reasons, are unable to have a successful partnership with anyone. So no, there isn't someone for everyone. People who are emotionally healthy can for a successful partnership with many people -- not everyone, but they could be happy with a number of people.

[kellytheman]

Well with 5 billion people in the world there must be the hard part is finding that person. I do think there is but they might be far away like a different country or on the other side of the world. I feel most people do settle and no one get the perfect guy or girl.

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely. The only reason some people never find that person is usually through laziness. Some people think a dating app will make it happen or that perfect person will just magically knock on the door one day.

[Billlewis]

Perhaps, but it's a lot harder to find them nowadays, because online, there are too many choices, and it's always easier to find something wrong with them and keep shopping.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Yes I believe so, in statistical terms.

That doesn't guarantee success in finding that someone and that doesn't mean they're going to have a nice relationship with them.

[NathanDavis]

no... because that's feeling entitled

you shouldn't think "someone has to be just be there and exist for you"

YOU do the work, and become that someone for someone else

[CherryLove007]

Sure but it is like looking for your one needle in a needle stack and getting introduced to that person on top of that.

[Abbycado]

If people keep their options open and don’t have ridiculous standards, yes.

[Crimsyjo]

Do you think attraction can really work like that? I think it can grow between two people with familiarity where physical attraction wasn't instant but? If a person has a type or types can they really change if they just don't feel anything to attributes outside of those preferences?

[Abbycado]

Then they can’t expect to find someone. If an average guy only wants what he sees as a ten, what are the odds?

Take money, success and everything else off the table.

[Crimsyjo]

I don't think external things like money, car, house, success should be on a must have list in searching for a compatible partner anyways. I was more thinking if you are not attracted to very overweight people, or much older/younger, too tall/too short, or even skin colour can that just not be helped? Should a 30 year old override not being attracted to a 60 year old? Even if they like that person's personality? Or if they just don't find glasses on a person attractive, or only attracted people the same race as themselves? Even if they wish otherwise and it cuts down the odds can it just not be helped?

[TonyMetal___86]

I think so yes, but will we find them, it's a matter of luck...

[emeraldsaphire]

I don't know. Have you seen some of the guys on gag. Seems highly unlikely

[Bricealan]

@Crimsyjo I'm certain there are A LOT of someone's out there.

[soe11]

• Yes indeed.
• Why not go out for try, strive.
• I'm sure you will gain.

[exitseven]

no, some people are just not suited to be in a relationship.

[LiamJHayden]

8 billion people... I think there are probably thousands of compatible for nearly everyone, but meeting those people can be a challenge.

[AgentG111]

Absolutely it just isn't what the other person in believes they want or that they are for them.

[AngryCarl3]

In theory, yes. In reality the chances are that you will never meet them.

[Anonymous]

I don't know.
Feels there is, but there is an issue with it, the reach is bad for unattractive.
I want to say yes but my experiences wants to say no.

[Staximus]

For most people but whether they find them or not is another story

[LC75LC71]

I believe there are multiple. It's a matter of finding one or many that really counts.

[Iron_Man]

I think so at least for a while because nothing really last in these days

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes I do. Impossible not to be with so many people around.

[Anonymous]

Maybe, but it seems that "someone out there for me" lives on another continent...

[JustMe019]

I don't think at all. My "someone" married with someone else caused I didn't do and said anything.

[jshm2]

No, as most people would murder them.

[WhitneySnow]

I think there is

[MrChinaski]

The right people are everywhere.

[Lauren-green]

I hope so

[TeaTheresa]

I think everyone can find suitable partners.

[beenherebefore]

Yes, I believe so.

[Anonymous]

No.. I'm living proof of that

[SeekerOfTruth007]

Nope.

[dudeinohio]

I believe so

[beefcakebradybatson]

Yes.