Is it true that there’s someone out there for everyone? Do you believe that there’s someone out there for you?
dñ MannThere is potential, but no, there is not someone for everyone. That is a romantic notion sold by Disney and similar to sell the idea of soul mates.
Too many, especially in these modern times die alone, and many are very single and going into years between actually being in a committed relationship.
Women no longer depend on men, people live longer, people can get absorbed into their careers, hobbies, and even vices like alcohol to ever be available to other people.
Your best attitude is to understand that there are people who are more capatable than others. There are people with better chances to meet others, and there are others who are practically cutoff even while around thousands of people.
We need to evolve our understanding of how we operate and what we want and need out of relationships. This whole accidental near miss of meeting your soulmate at a chance meeting and falling madly in love is a hard reality that if the person is waiting out for that moment, it might take years, and even a lifetime to find them, and the person should know that they may never experience that moment.
And some people have opted instead to keep convenient relationships to not fully invest in the person they are with, hoping to be free when that chance person shows up, they can shed their convenient partner for the love at first sight God given relationship of a lifetime. And these people, along with all the others cloud the dating markets because a lot of people are wasting their time in relationships that has them playing both a short and long-game in love. In short, a lot of toxic and unhealthy relationships.
How to find that capatible person? Just stay optimistic. Keep an open and show interest. But when you find that person, get off the market, and stop investing in people who are just good enough until the great one shows up. That's horrible and really unfair to the person who might think they have something. These people lose, and walk away with deep scares that will take a long time to heal, to allow them to meet their true love.
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If you believe it will happen lol:)! so yeah my corny thinking comes true sometimes!
I'm indifferent on life. I think whatever happens, happens. We are all connected in some way through our universal energy. I think saying "there's a someone for everyone" is just a thing people say to comfort them from being lonely and giving them hope that they'll find a great romantic life. The facts are that everything changes in life therefore the "perfect someone" for you is changing just as quickly as you are yourself and nothing is a guarantee in life.
I say just mingle with the people that bring positivity and growth in your life. Then you aren't setting your expectations so high.
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Maybe, maybe not if there us they taking too damn long. I'm surrounded by imposters he need to hurry it up pick up the pace ir start looking up he ain't.
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Actually, I think I have found her!
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There will always be compatible partners. The challenge is finding the person. Just understand the quality of a relationship is based on what you do to create and nurture it together. It's not based on what you're entitled to receive. Every piece of music that ever existed or ever will exist can be found on a piano. It's blending the keys in a special way that makes it successful. If you don't learn how to blend the keys or don't prioritize doing so, don't complain about what you end up with.
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I believe there is... buuut some people truly are reprehensible and yet sometimes even those people manage to find love... or 'love' in quotes lol. There's just sooo many people on the planet... odds are there's definitely at least one person out there who you can clique with romantically. odds are there maybe several in fact.
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I think it all depends on the effort you're willing to put forth and how much you're willing to accept. I could probably be dating someone right now if I was willing to accept just any woman and any treatment of me, but I'm not.
I think some people have the NEED to be with somebody so badly that they're willing to sacrifice every bit of thier character to achieve that. And that almost always ends badly. It's called a PARTNERSHIP for a reason. I expect respect. And she should demand that from me.
The truth is some people either SHOULD be single or they're just not READY for a relationship.
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nope. doing the math on population, and roughly taking into consideration things like preffered (in plenty of cases must have) gender, preffered race/skintone, preffered looks/personalities, age ranges, sexual prefferences (kinks etc) , location on the planet, social-economics, availability, lifespan, and other factors (both external and internal/self) there statistically can not be someone for everyone. due to some of those same factors there are more than one for some which in turn further limits the pool for others.
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No there’s not someone out there for everyone that’s some delusional Disney movie rhetoric and it does a disservice for some people to even think that’s a possibility lol I don’t believe in love cuz most people break up or get divorced eventually anyways.
You know i don’t like to sugar coat things so the honest truth is I think good relationships that last are a combination of checking enough of the superficial boxes each partner wants in a relationship (i. e. Looks, good sex, money, etc) and liking each other’s personality enough to where they don’t want to kill each other eventually when the honeymoon phase is over 😂 and yes i think i can find that special woman in my life who fits that criteria but who knows we probably would still split up anyways cuz like every other woman she turns out to be too crazy 😝
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I believe there's someone out there for everyone. Now I'm not sure if there's someone out there for me honestly. But for everyone else of course there is
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No, otherwise no one will be single or will die single.
If an argument is "maybe they have no chance to meet" - then that person is not for this person.
Another argument is "Maybe he/she messed it up" - then again, that person is not for this person.
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For you, I'd have unbelievably high competition to overcome. To say nothing of political hurdles. And that's assuming the best!
Otherwise, I'm not sure there is anyone for me anymore. I seem to strike out left and right.
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Whether or not there's someone out there for everyone doesn't really matter considering the probability of meeting that person, if they exist, is pretty damn small. I don't really think there's someone out there for me, given my standards and how busted up I am. I don't see how there could be.
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No to both questions. I'm living proof that there isn't. I'd like a partner sure, but I'm unwilling to be a simp or slave to a woman (unlike most guys), and I'm short and not rich. So there ya go. Literally undateable.
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Yeah, he was here.
However, we all have to do some work to get to a better place with that someone.
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At one time I used to think there was someone for everyone. But seeing how I am at the ripe old age of 68 that statement seems to have changed. I am no longer looking for marriage but rather to have a companion to be with. But, there is not really much to choose from unless I go for someone at least 10 years younger. The ones my age are either still married or divorced and not at all interested in getting involved.
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Yes and no. I thing everyone has the potential to have someone for them, but a lot of people also allow themselves to be so problematic that any sort of stable relationship is impossible.
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Yes I think I found that person
I actually met him here on the site 😊
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I have known too many people who went to their graves having never found someone to believe there is someone for everyone.
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Likely damaged and some made deranged by a lifetime of ill fitting attempts with others, but yes.
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I honestly do believe that, like even serialkillers and psychopaths somehow manage to find someone haha
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Very true. It took me 30 years to find him though. Patience and believing that one day you will find the one for you are key. Never stop looking for them until you find them.
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Yes but they take their sweet bloody own time about it!
Given that boys and girls have a such a strong predilection for each other, it is surprising just how hard it is.
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