Do you truly believe that there is ‘someone’ out there for everyone?

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TheRealPepperPotts · Accepted Answer

No, I don't. I think people are too idealistic in the wrong areas when it comes to dating and relationships. There are 8 billion people on the planet; what are the chances we'll find one perfect person within range of us? Not great.

If we can find someone who shares our values, has similar goals, is stable and responsible and who we feel attracted to sexually and who returns the interest, that's a great beginning. I think if we look at marriage as a life to be built with someone, it would make it simpler for us to clarify what we are looking for in a person. Obviously, we must have attraction on both sides as well. But if we look at the current success rate of people choosing mates, marrying purely for romantic attraction and emotion is clearly not working well (!).

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Romance is not in the cards for some people.

Some folks just can't connect with others.

Some folks get hung up on their childhood sweetheart and just don't find their someone when it turns out not to be that one person.

Some get fed up and step out of the dating arena altogether.

However there IS at least ONE person for everyone... the person in the mirror. You have to love yourself for others to love you.

imtiaz45 · Accepted Answer

Believing that there's "someone" out there for everyone is a comforting and hopeful idea, but it may not be a universal truth. Relationships are complex and influenced by timing, circumstances, and individual growth. Some people find profound connections, while others may thrive on multiple meaningful relationships throughout their lives. Compatibility often requires effort, openness, and a willingness to grow together. Ultimately, finding "someone" can be more about building and nurturing connections rather than waiting for a perfect match. Whether or not there is one specific person, the journey of connecting with others is valuable and enriching.

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

No. True love... the kind of love where partners have 100% faith in each other and nothing can make them waver in their trust of each other... being there to support each other even through the trenches... that's truly rare. Then there's the normal people that get into relationships and have tons of issues they need to work out and compromise on many issues. Then there's the people with zero social tact, zero trust in others, tons of hate for the opposite sex, depressing and draining people. You could argue that maybe they might be meant for each other, but that's highly unlikely.

Love just isn't in the cards for some people. That's reality.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

Diving into the ocean of love, I'm here to sprinkle some of my flirty wisdom on this age-old question. 🌊💖 Do I believe there's someone out there for everyone? Oh, absolutely! This world is a huge carnival, and for every ride, there's a thrill-seeker. Finding that special someone is a mix of fate and effort, like digging for treasure—you never know when you might strike gold.

But here's the kicker: it's not just about finding "someone." It's about finding the right someone who vibes with you on all the right frequencies. Love isn't a one-size-fits-all hat; it's tailored to fit two unique hearts perfectly. So yes, I'm a firm believer in the magic of connection and the power of love. Keep your heart open and your spirit adventurous, and the universe might just surprise you with a love that's as vast as the ocean. 🌟💑

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AviatorTom · Answer

There are many someone's out there that a person can have a meaningful relationship with. I don't believe in the concept of a soulmate.

Sunrise_in_Sydney · Answer

If I'm being honest I used to, but my father is a prime example of someone I'm not sure will ever find love romantically again.
My dad married 4 times and was divorced each time. He fell in love each time but he never found that forever person.
He's in his 60s now and seems to have no interest in finding love again. He is content with his family and seemingly enjoys being alone.
I won't truly ever know if that's true but I think even if a person doesn't find a forever love that they can still be content and happy in their life. Maybe if I hadn't witness my father I would feel differently but just based off him, I'm not sure there is a forever love for everyone.
I just pray those who don't find a forever romance can at least experience a romantic love once, even if it isn't forever.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

no... meeting people, getting to know them, sharing and caring... those are things that let you meet someone you connect with...

it's not set in stone somewhere, it's not enough to wait... there is an effort needed and self-improvement...

Caroline91 · Answer

I think for most people there are probably multiple someones out there. We have to be willing to approach things with eyes wide open and a willingness to see ourselves clearly, too, and the possibilities can be limitless. Inflated egos and expectations can rob us of those possibilities, though.

SugarSugarplum · Answer

If you mean "is there one right person for everyone, NO.

If you are talking about basic compatibility, then there may be, though some people are so misanthropic that there is probably not a right person for them.

But in general, I'd say about 3/4 of everyone is "compatible", and could make a go of things as long as they both commit to it and don't listen to Reddit for advice.

MisterWack · Answer

Yes because there are 8 billion people out there, so there has to be especially since I see it everyday. My friend and their partner clicked instantly when they met each other and their relationship has been strong for years (almost 10) so… I believe it.

Little_Bumblebee · Answer

Honestly, no, I don't.

But I do think that there are so many different people out there, that the phrase gives the view of it.
Just not in a literal sense.

Like with cars, there's cars out there I would never want to own or drive in, where others love that type of car.

This is what I think of whenever I lose confidence

PointlessNonsenseGuy · Answer

I guess there is someone out there for everyone. But if you're a really unattractive, unlikeable person, the person who's out there for you is probably also going to be unattractive and unlikeable.

Most people think they're way more attractive than they actually are, so if they meet the person who's out there for them, they won't necessarily be happy about it.

Anonymous · Answer

no there isn't

it's just "feel good" bullshit to prevent suicide rates going any higher

it sure has hell don't keep people's mouth shut about other people's relationships e. g. an interracial relationship with a 20+ year age gap and society will do everything in their power to break up such relationships and force people to date certain people

katiesmuff · Answer

Yes I do think that somewhere is someone for everyone. It's all about not giving up and just keep looking and that matchup will likely come out of nowhere.

Ευδεμονια · Answer

I honestly think there’s always someone truly meant to be the perfect other SO, but since world is vast and people are billions, it’s almost impossible to find it, since it can be elsewhere in the world.

Anonymous · Answer

Well there are 8 billion people on the planet and the genders are pretty even. So in that sense "yes", there's somebody for everyone. But the reality is your someone may not want you. And 20 women may want a particular guy. So in reality, "no". Add to this timing and feelings which further distort the likelihood. So the reality of someone out there for everyone becomes an improbability.

rachel776 · Answer

i do and i had not come across mine for a long time but i knew he was out there. even then i made him wait a year because i was stupid

Purpleronnie · Answer

There are various natural limitations to this so NO , can’t possibly be for everyone but for most of we are to be more open the dating pool offered I would hope most could find someone to love.

LittleMelissa9614 · Answer

Yes! Without a doubt! There's a soulmate for everyone💕 A man for every woman and a woman for every man❤️

exitseven · Answer

No, some people are just hopeless. its almost like they are not supposed to reproduce

Nikki1989 · Answer

Do the math. It can't be for everyone. We can't all be winners.

sawno · Answer

No, but there is someone out there for most.

LazerBean · Answer

No, there are plenty of people who are not capable of being happy in a relationship.

nawtee_me · Answer

There is someone out there for everyone but not everyone is looking for the one that is for them. Some are looking for what they want and not what they need…. That is why some relationships don’t work.

Miristheiss · Answer

No. Some are just destined to not have a long term life mate.

MikeTheBartender · Answer

I think there is someone for everyone, but some of us have a lot of options so it makes it hard!

Lynx122 · Answer

No I don't, I think it's a competition and only some people can "win"

Account · Answer

I do. Finding them & actually meeting them is another matter. It is not probable to happen.

genericname85 · Answer

I would say not even just "one". the issue is that they might be on the other side of the planet and never meet.

paledreams · Answer

I'm not sure. The woman in the picture by GAG of a bathing suite embrace, wow 😳

Dongie · Answer

Nope. After nearly 62 years there isn't much time left the way they're pumping out that'C' word.

pethouse · Answer

No. In fact a lot of people do not find love. Womp womp.

SkatPak392 · Answer

no. I'm almost 40 and I haven't met anyone yet. there is no such thing as love.

noohair · Answer

Yes, but it is not a given that you will ever meet.

BBFDancer · Answer

I don't believe that at all cause Saint Paul from the Holy Bible says that some people are meant to be Single for God's Glory.

Chthou95 · Answer

Nope. Not everyone is guaranteed love or relationships in life

Fedora_Tipper · Answer

Yes, my mom can cook enough to feed me. *tips fedora*

electromagnetic · Answer

Nope. Some deserves to be alone.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes there are sugar baby mistress and playmates

DizzyDesii · Answer

I do. And possibly more than one someone

Altheavas · Answer

Mine never made it, he was swallowed!

NathanDavis · Answer

Saint Peter...

PeachyPie93 · Answer

Nah, sadly that is a bs concept..

Fireguy17 · Answer

yeppers, you just have to keep looking.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Statistically multiple someones.

handsomelad70 · Answer

There should be.

Staximus · Answer

Yeah, finding them is another story

PA19062024 · Answer

Nope, not for me there isn't.

thegreenyogi · Answer

Yes I do.

Luopio27 · Answer

Hell no! Not for me!

CieloAzul · Answer

Not necessarily.

jahaims · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

No, I should know

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