I’m 18 and he’s 35 — is that too big of an age gap to date?

[Anonymous]

I’m 18. I saw this cute guy on a dating app and we matched, but I’m not sure if he’s too old or not. I know a lot of people would probably respond “date somebody your own age”, but I’m not attracted to people my own age I want somebody older and wiser, more mature, and secure.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

No, don't fall for it.

Just because a guy is older that doesn't make him more mature, secure and wise.

Age doesn't mean anything, it's all about individual personality.

And somebody who is tinder at 35 is most likely not any of those things you said.

[jahaims]

He is a loser if he has enough in common with you to date. He has almost twice your life experience.

[FunkyMonkee]

So, you're about twice his age. Well, if you wait about 15 years, you'll be 50 and he'll be 33 and will only be 1/3 younger than you!! Another 15 years and you'll be 65 and he'll be 48, only 1/4 younger than you! If you wait long enough, he'll catch up to you!

[Asker]

Huh?

[FunkyMonkee]

Age is only number. My fiance is half my age.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah, that's really big! He's theoretically old enough to be your father.

[Zionne]

as long as he's responsible and mature, I think you'd better date him then

[In_Trance]

What can you possibly have in common with someone twice your age

[Asker]

He’s hot im hot🤷

[In_Trance]

You have fun with that

[Nikki1989]

Yes, he is an obvious creep.

[dudeinohio]

I think that's too large of an age gap.

[Anonymous]

Yes.

[Anonymous]

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