Search Results: finding the right person

a featured article I read here the other day inspired me to ask this question. but before I start I would like to apologize in advance for sounding too vulgar.

OK so as a guy who doesn't want to get involve in any serious relationship right now I kinda finding this "emotional connection" thing a major turn off. I mean this to me sounds like something that could lead to some sort of attachment later on after the sex. and as a human being it kinda sounds illogical to me that someone needs to feel an "emotional connection" with another human being in order for that individual to have sex with that person. let'snot forget that is proven millions of times that both our sex drives (men and women's) function the same exact way so to me this is more reason why I believe a woman could still have sex with a man just for finding him sexually appealing. I even met a lot of women who say that it is indeed unnecesary for women to feel this "emotional connection" in order to let their freaky side out. most of them even when on criticizing these women who say such a thing by calling them bullshitters, hypocrites, fakers, etc. lets not forget how there are a lot of women out there who would have sex for money and favors aka things that dont relate to "emotional connections."

anyways getting to the point i think this "emotional connection" bullshit is just a hoax women nowadays use in order to repress their wild side and not feel like a slut or any other type of guilt from it. but yea, i just want to know, do I have a right to see women who say such a thing as a red flag? or am i being too judgmental?