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I have had this extremely heavy burden weighing on my shoulders for the longest of time.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I feel my life is over in terms of having a girlfriend, a wife, and a family one day.

I want a woman where we can be each other's first loves. I seek a woman where we can be each other's first boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't want to give my heart away to a woman who has loved someone romantically before, especially from her youth. I just don't know if I will ever find her.

I deal with this every day. The depression, the anxiety, and the overwhelming sadness. I am hurt.

I am completely doomed when it comes to finding love. I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend. I only want a woman who has never had her first love or a boyfriend before. I don't know if I will find that. I am tired of searching.

I still want to have the option at least to have kids and be a dad. Should I consider surrogacy or adoption?

I am 27 and I have never had a real girlfriend. I am thinking that I am also considered an incel at this point, considering I haven't touched a girl since 2015. I lost my virginity at age 20 to a 16 year old girl, although it was only a hookup situation and I have only had sex only once. As mentioned, I never had an actual girlfriend.

I only want a woman who has never had her first love or any previous boyfriends. I managed to find 2 girls like that, but they both rejected me on the first date. One was 18 and the other was 17. The date with the 17 year old was last weekend.

I would best describe myself as short (5'6"), dumpy, and getting older.

I am heartbroken because the only chances I feel I had failed, meanwhile, a lot of my peers are getting married and/or having kids.

I am very heartbroken right now.

I am 27 and never had a real girlfriend before. Meanwhile, I am watching most of my peers get married and/or have kids of their own.

I seek a woman who has never had her first love and has never had any boyfriends before, especially from her youth.

I just recently was crushed. I went on a date with this girl (17) last weekend who met my criteria. We talked for a month online before meeting. The date only lasted a few hours and I wasn't her type. She ended our date, and not only did she not want to be friends but she cut me off completely.

A year before that, I traveled to see this 18 year old girl who also met my criteria and she didn't think I was her type either. We talked several months every day before we met. Sadly, she is now engaged to some new guy.

I feel like just giving up. I am tired of starting over. I feel it is already difficult to find a woman who meets my criteria as it is. I don't know what to do.

I always wanted to have a girlfriend, a wife, and a family of my own. I feel this will never be a reality.

WHICH ONE WOULD YOU RATHER HAVE AS YOUR SERIOUS, COMMITTED GIRLFRIEND?
The follow-up question to the one from two weeks ago. You get two women to choose from.

Option A is a girl you find out is named Alicia. She is flawlessly beautiful and has a nearly perfect body, like a fictional character rather than someone who's actually real. Easily can be considered a Nine, if not an outright Ten. She's 5'10"/178 cm, a college athlete, a "master at sex," and works hard to maintain her figure. However, she is very superficial and a perfectionist. She is very hard to please, conceited and only thinks of herself, and expects you to live up to her lofty, high standards at all times, or she will dump you and publicly embarrass you while doing it. Commit to her lifestyle, or you're gone.

Option B is a girl you find out is named Bodhika. She's not what you'd consider physically attractive, at all. Whatever your personal standards are, she's halfway towards the opposite of them. But she could maybe be "good enough" as far as looks go. She's 5'5"/165 cm, has small breasts, narrow hips, a small booty, and is slightly overweight. She is studying to be a doctor. She has noticed you around the neighborhood and really likes you. She's kind, sweet, affectionate, has a really good sense of humor, quite intelligent, nonjudgmental, and accepts you for all your flaws and quirks. You might even have some hobbies in common, as well. You'll likely just never find her to be physically attractive (unless she undergoes extensive cosmetic surgery, which she is unwilling to do).

Which girl do you pick? The 10/10 with high standards, or the 5/10 who accepts you as you are right now?

Inspired by @siseñor girl's question.