How come everything my guyfriend at work says to me is sexual?

[Anonymous]

I saw him act that way to another girl after me too. Even if i say 'i have a male roommate' he will say Do you find him attractive or he says we could gettogether. But mostly its him saying sexual stuff to me or like about me and him. For example he said what kinda kisser am i and asked if im a slow kisser.

Etc etc i dont wanna keep going into detail.

He has a girlfriend by the way who he has sex with.

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The point is that he cannot have a normal convo without it going sexual or it has to be about one of his interests. Only then will the convo not become him being sexual.

[Anonymous]

I assume u are feeling a tad uncomfortable by his actions/speaking manner.
I recommend telling him to keep the conversations during work, related to work or to conversations that are suitable in workplace.
(it's not good to get involved in people who act that way) He already has a girlfriend yet he keeps hitting on u and other co-workers. It's best to keep it professional and keep the relationship between the 2 of u professional.

[Asker]

I told him to shut up and stop. He has excuses and just does it anyway

[Opinion Owner]

i hope it works out and he stops! if he keeps hitting on u, you might want to inform ur manager or smth as staying proficient during work it important

[Asker]

Thank u ❤

[LegendaryIcon]

first off, there's no such thing as "just friends"

second, that would be considered sexual harassment in the work place

[Avicenna]

He's just saying what he's thinking- he lacks a filter.

[Asker]

Why is he lacking a filter? And why is he constantly thinking sex

[Avicenna]

All guys constantly think about sex. Most of us don't talk about it, though.

[Asker]

Well whats wrong with him.

[Iron_Man]

Because he wants to see who is the one that will give in so He can take her to
bed

[Anonymous]

Have you considered the possibility that he is just a creep?

[Djw8tbdd]

What does thst word even mean

[Opinion Owner]

@Djw8tbdd Someone who is SO slimy, that when they talk to you it makes your flesh crawl

[Wise4myage]

He wants to smash, but he's also a dumb ass.