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Search Results: comparing yourself
The Rake's Dating Philosophy
This is a synthesis of my main ideas since joining the site. The focus is on the logistics and psychology of dating and how men can overcome the inequalities of a dating economy that is biased in favour of women. First, I...
the_rake
Editor Age: 34 How to not be attracted to my girlfriend's sister?
I'm dating the sweetest girl who loves me a lot and whom I love as well. She is really pretty and intelligent and deep and just absolutely amazing. If I lost her I would be devastated and so would she, and I know these...
Anonymous
(36-45) Obesity should be taken more seriously
Good fellas, let's start with the actual definition of Obese , don't google it , because the definition is quite revolting, but one thing to be noted is that, it is measured via BMI, now, BMI might not be 100% accurate...
takumii
Guru Age: 30 What are your thoughts on this? Do you like it or not and why? Do you agree?
Desiderata Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and...
Why self-comparison is important
“BE YOURSELF!” I want to stop and think about this for a moment, for two reasons, the first is the question “what does that mean?” of course and the second is one which does not occur so often and that is “how can I not...
Entity
Xper 7 Age: 38 How to plan your Trip Expense
But what's the need, you might ask. There are plenty packages available to us online, just book one and off you go ! Let me tell you one thing, Tourism is the world's largest Service sector industry. Why is it ? Big...
takumii
Guru Age: 30 What were you like at 16-18?
I'm interested to see how in contrast people are to their former selves. So, here are my questions, you don't have to answer all or any of them: How did you handle moving out? (If you have) How did you handle getting a...
chuppachup
Yoda Age: 28 Why Every Man Responds on Some Level To “The Matrix”
The Matrix was a global phenomenon, but it is my belief that the film actually sparks something in the heart of every man about his own masculinity. It excites it if only on a subconscious level. This take is to bring...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 How to grow up: Stop being so sensitive, and don't give a damn!
In today's world, a great many of us men seem to be withering away from what actually made men so great. Not to say, that we have become more tempartmental, where we were once pragmatic, optimistic and full of vitality....
Chief16
Editor Age: 33 Do you think social media (facebook/twitter, etc) causes depression, anxiety and low self esteem?
Do you think it does? I think it does. You can't help but compare other peoples lives to yourself.
Anonymous
(36-45) Girls, do you glance at other girls who are naked in the gym locker room?
Do you look and kind of compare yourself to them? I'm not saying you purposely look but if somebody happens to be naked in your line of sight that you glance at them and compare?
Anonymous
(30-35) Why do non-virgin girls pick you? Why can't you stay with your first?
Why do non-vigin girls pick other guys to date? Why do non-virgin girls leave their first? You are just bringing baggage into our lives and comparing us to your first all the time. You are giving us a used version of...
Anonymous
(25-29) The World Owes You NOTHING
I'm so sick and tired of people--men and women with these huge senses of entitlement. It's almost always young people (people born after 1986 to be specific.) Your parents raised you to think you would just be given...
pavlove
Editor Age: 34 Mental Disorders/Illnesses Are Like Being On Drugs
I've thought about this for a while now. Everytime I see anything talking about symtoms people have. When they take illegal drugs or some other kinds.They just sound like they give themselves symtoms from a mental...
Do a lot of people go without relationships of dating for a few years? Let's say 5 years for this specific case?
The most common thing to hear about love that I always hear is "love yourself first". I do love myself but now that it's been 5 years since I've been on a single date, I wonder if there's something wrong with me. I used...
Abe90
Xper 7 Age: 36 Do you consider yourself an Environmentalist?
On November 28-29th, 2015, over 2'300 events (marches, rallys, protests) were planned in order to show leaders and delegates in Paris that the world is paying attention and is taking a stand for more action in terms of...
Kiwedin
Yoda Age: 31 Getting Healthy on a Budget - What to Eat When You Have Limited Fund
I was recently contacted by somebody who had a very intriguing question, a question that inspired me to write this myTake for you all today: What can you eat to lose weight, when you have limited amounts of money?...
Anonymous
(30-35) Can someone please give me advice?
So I'm actually a pretty confident person. I've never been the one to get bothered by anything. It's like you're confident until you compare yourself with others, thats why they say don't compare yourself w anyone. For...
Anonymous
(30-35) Overcoming the odds: How A Man's Income can Counteract Womens' Racial Biases when Dating Online
A lot has been said about how race plays a role in how often you will be contacted by women online. Thanks to websites like OkCupid, we've learned a great deal about how the real world works where dating is concerned, and...
Watermelonoma
Yoda Age: 35 Time for Dirty Gains: Increase Strength and Muscle Gains
You trying to make some gains? That's good man, that's real good. What you want (ladies and gentlemen) is higher testosterone levels. Available test' levels will help increase strength and muscle gains. It is worth noting...
Anonymous
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