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Guys, what do you do to try and discourage a girl who probably likes you but you don't like her?

To discourage her from trying to ask you out or attempt to flirt with you more, do you try to avoid eye contact and look at your phone when she's talking to you, for example?
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Does this guy still have feelings for me?

To simplify things, I had a huge crush on a man. We both flirted with each other and it was clear (well it is now) that he was into me. However, we couldn’t be together (I won’t explain why). He always displayed some kind...
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To simplify things, I had a huge crush on a man. We both flirted with each other and it was clear (well it is now) that he was into me. However, we couldn’t be together (I won’t Show More
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Why does he text me but seem distant?

There's this guy, we've known each other for 11ish years and have always liked each other and have talked on and off since we were about 12. Nothing has ever come of it. We've both had other relationships, but it seems...
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Was this interaction flirting?

I was talking to my guy friend. I asked him a lot about his life and he then said ”No one has ever asked me these questions before”. I said ”Well you interest me.” He replied ”So do you.” Was this flirting? If yes, who...
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Is it flirting if guy says he want me to cook for him food and asks if he can pick it up himself?

He was first joking that he wants to me to cook for him and then send the food to him through uber eats. Then he said is it going to be free delivery or he’s going pick it up by himself. Mind you I’m not a cook and he...
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Why is my guy friend mixing signals? He calls to brag about his dates, he physically flirts with me around others but avoids going out with me alone?

He physically flirts with me in public e. g. stealing a sip of my drink, asking to share my ice cream cone, putting his arm around my waist, teasing me and touching my arm in conversation, texts me quite late at night...
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HELP I DONT KNOW WHY I GOT GHOSTED?

I met this guy over the weekend at a recreational tournament (we will call him grey shirt). He was pretty attractive, and we ended up playing on the same team as one another. After every kill he got or every kill I got,...
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Would you consider this flirting or not?

Is guy flirting if he asks in a joking if I can deliver to him food that I’ve cooked? He said in a joking way “please can you one day send me through uber eats food that you’ve cooked?” I jokingly asked if he cooked for...
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How to ask him what he's looking for?

There's this guy, L, that I've been talking to on and off for over 10 years. Ever since we were like 12. Always bad timing, one of us would move away or get into another relationship, etc. Currently, I moved away...
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Is he mad at me because of my age?

***PLEASE DON'T ANSWER IF YOU'RE HERE TO INSULT AND BE CRUEL*** There's a guy I've been talking to IRL for a month now. We didn't exchange numbers or anything. He seemed frankly smitten but still shy. He was asking me...
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Do girls’ get turned on by a guy that intimidates her?

Reason I ask is because I was always a broad/ muscular guy the didn’t really know my own strength , Some of the girls I would flirt with or hook up with would confess to me that they were intimidated by me at first until...
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The Top 7 Traits to Look for in a Truly Good Man

We all know that finding an ideal guy can be tough. Whether you’re navigating the treacherous waters of online dating or simply trying to figure out if the guy you just met is worth your time, it can be hard to know what...
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Was he just toying with me?

I asked a guy whose been flirting with me intensely if he had a girlfriend. He answered "no" while shaking his had and swatting his hands out to the side. He jumped on phone immediately and disengaged? Was he just toying...
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He shows signs of affection but is he still interested in me?

So i went out on a drinking date with my hinge match. The date was beyond perfect. Our convo flows well, there’s never an awkward pause. We quickly flirted and kissed while being drunk. And then it was really late, my...
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I asked him if he's been with anybody since his breakup and he said 'not really' what does that mean?

So my friend and I started heavily flirting few days ago, kinda happened randomly. I liked him from day 1 but he was in a relationship, so I moved on but we stayed friends. Anyway they broke up a couple of months ago and...
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Is it okey if my teacher is flirting with me?

Hi! I'm 18 years old and i am little confused that my English teacher might be flirting with me. He's around 45 years old, he started teaching my school from the 1st semester. In every class he always tries to sit next...
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Why is this guy lurking around my Instagram?

Long story short, we met around a year ago in a bar that I go to often, he's a staff there. After few days of flirting I finally asked him out... only to get the "I have a girlfriend" response. Well no big deal, I...
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Is the bartender flirting with me? Or is he just doing his job?

So I am from Australia, so I am not sure if that means bartending might be a bit different as we don't do tips as such. . So last weekend I went to a bar and I felt super confident. I found one of the bartenders really...
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What should I do if 2 guys at my gym have asked me on a date and I am flirting with another?

first of all don’t judge me guy #1 approached me… I let him have my socials we got talking. He asked me out last night to bowling guy #2 . I realised we went to the same high school and elementary but never spoke I...
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Does this man still want me?

Asking because I’m curious and because I’m finding his comments strange. I had a huge crush on an Italian guy for about 8 years. Unfortunately he was unavailable so I never pursued him. We did flirt, admittedly but he...
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