What should I do if 2 guys at my gym have asked me on a date and I am flirting with another?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

first of all don’t judge me guy #1 approached me…

I let him have my socials we got talking.
He asked me out last night to bowling

guy #2 . I realised we went to the same high school and elementary but never spoke I decided to say hey on Facebook, we spoke and he asked me out.

guy #3 i realised he looked familiar and I was attracted to him turns out he’s a guy that used to work in a grocery store me and my friend used to joke around at when we where 13. I added him on fb and we got flirting

Now I’m worried I will get a reputation here because there’s another guy as well that I approached as a friend because he was my neighbour and I see him daily but ever since I seen him his girlfriend I never spoke to him since January.

[Bklynbadboy12]

This is a good situation to be you have choices just way outside options. Which guy do you think is best for you and when you figure that out? That's what you go with you're not doing anything wrong. Just remember one thing. Have fun with it. Life is short have fun cause before you know it you'll be in a committed relationship

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m just worried one may become discouraged or put off from me if he sees me interacting with another guy

[Bklynbadboy12]

Chances are one will and they get jealous too how will you handle that

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I don’t know maybe I should change my gym time slot

[Bklynbadboy12]

Well you don't have to do anything yet because nothing happened but you might have to in the future

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[stratford]

Go on a date with them all and decide which you like best :-)

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I can’t do that! If it gets around they’ll think I’m a bad person and I may lose my chance with the one I like more!

[stratford]

Start with the one you like more, and work back from there. Take the leap it's better than doing nothing.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m just really scared because they all go to the gym within the same time frame. If one sees me interacting with another it’s bad news. I guess I can change my time frame or set boundaries if they are working out I guess they won’t speak to me beyond 1 minute

[stratford]

It will only make them all more competitive and try harder to win your love.

[Pudsmucker]

Go out and have fun and date off all those guys. It's not like you're going to marry them. That's the purpose of dating not to get a steady but the date around and see who you would be compatible with.

[Anonymous]

wait wait wait in the title you said two guys then why is there 3 in the explanation? so confused

[VikingWarLord]

Why you little hussy you... I'm gonna tell your mama

[MrCommodore]

You free for a date on Saturday night? 😃

[msc545]

Have a threesome.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

I’m fine

[Anonymous]

I don't really get the question.

[Anonymous]

So which is the guy you're flirting with?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Two of them are flirting with me calling me beautiful etc and asked me out. the 3rd one that I added is the only that I really want but he doesn’t seem as interested as the others

[Opinion Owner]

Has guy #3 asked you out yet?

[Amur8711]

You don't want that type of reputation?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

NO. I’m terrified they will talk to me and one of the others will see we are all friendly with the staff as we are all there daily so work may spread fast

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Word*

[Amur8711]

You wouldn't like to have multiple guys to be friendly with?

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Well if a guy I really like sees me interact with other guys would he not think I’m a waste of his time?

[Amur8711]

It may push him to make a move

[Anonymous]

Fuck all 3 of them

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

That’s absurd.

[Opinion Owner]

Why?

[TallAnon]

Make up your mind.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

The one I’m most interested in is giving mixed signals what would you do?

[TallAnon]

Nothing to lose, go on a date. But knowing you, check if he's single.