Went to the gym and went swimming with my guy friend and he's like my brother, but my crush told me that it was disrespectful that I went with out him even tho I asked him twice if he wanted to go with me so we can spend time together and told me to stay home and work out instead of go to the gym, now he told me we are "over" bc I disrespected him bc I was swimming and revealing myself to another man even tho we were just swimming and he started stating that I don't bring anything to our so called relationship even tho I changed myself for him, gave him the world, supported him, appreciated him all the time try to get him to trust me and got rid of all my friends so he wouldn't feel insecure about them but that one friend he let me have, that 1 is in a happy relationship and 2 millions of time i told him there will not be any type of intimentace between my best friend bc he is like my brother from forever ago and it wouldn't be an issue but told me I disrespected him, when I loved him, knew he was gunna be hard to be in a relationship, supported him, changed my whole intire life for him in over a year, got over grieving a massive thing in my life, keeping up with my mental and physical health, and told me I don't bring him anything, and I only care about myself and I'm selfish
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Blow him off. Obviously he doesn't know a good thing when he's got it. You didn't disrespect him at all. You went swimming with a friend. Seriously he said that to you? He's the one that's insecure not you.
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It seems you really care about him, the fact that you changed yourself a lot shows that.
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He blew a good thing. Hang in there.
I'm telling you right now that nothing you do is ever going to please this guy he has some serious trust issues and obviously he doesn't trust you so it would be better for you to move on cause nothing you do is going to please him
Yeah, move on. Dodged a bullet there…
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