I can admit when a guy that i find intimidating is still physically attractive and even mysterious. But not to a point that i want to get to know him. It makes me want to steer clear of him. But i can think of 2 guys i found intimidating in college. One was Superman Rob and the other was Green Giant Grant. They were the only two who i deep down did still want to get to know because Rob and i would make this eye contact at eachother in the hall and Grant would hold doors for me. I was like dammit why dont either of us ever just speak. Then one day i sat in the lobby and of all the empty seats, Rob sat next to me and rested his arm behind the back of my chair. He just randomly started talking and that just became our spot. Then Grant and I went aaaaall semester with sitting across from eachother but never speaking aside from him holding the door. Then after i graduated, im at this place picking up chips/salsa and he's standing behind me in line and just sparks up the longest convo. We were both smiling like crazy. He then asks if i’d like to join his table. Omg i was crying on the inside because my grandpa was in the car waiting for me 💀😭 i wasn't thinking at the time so i didn't ask for his number. I declined and rushed out like an idiot 😭🥴 There was one other guy but things were more mutual so he wasn't as mysterious and he always spoke but when he asked me to hangout with him during the summer, my nerves got the best of me and i said yea sure but then rushed off 💀🙈 I was such a nervous wreck at times in college. But still to answer the question, i can only really be into an intimidating guy if one of us breaks the ice and he's not as intimidating as i thought
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it will work for you more than against you it helps your very communicative and it doesn't leave you scared of you or would i feel you'd do things i wouldn't want to do
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I don't. It just puts me on guard until they're gone
That has never happened to me.
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