Does she feel intimidated by me?

[magicturtle]

Hello guys, recently I shared this with you. There is that girl from work I find attractive, and I did research about her with her friends and turns out she has a boyfriend. On the other hand I noticed she is nice to everyone except me, in fact she doesn't even look at me when she says hello. Can she feel intimidated by me? maybe she doesn't want to ruin her relationship with her boyfriend. I am a good looking man 6.2, polite, and kind. Is she afraid to fall for me?

Not that it matters I am not going to ask her out, since she got a boyfriend, but it'll still be nice to know what the reason is.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude I don't know, it's hard to say for sure without really knowing this girl. A few things it could be:

- Maybe she is intimidated by you since you're so handsome and tall! Some girls get shy around really good looking guys.

- Or it could be she doesn't want to lead you on at all since she has a boyfriend. Flirting or being too friendly could cross a boundary.

- Possibly she's one of those chicks who acts cold to guys she actually finds attractive as a defense mechanism.

- Your confidence and kindness could be intimidating too if she's used to more insecure dudes.

- Working together adds a layer of complication since romance would be off limits.

My advice would be not to take it too personal either way. You seem like a great catch so her loss if she can't even look your way! I'd just keep it friendly professional at work. Who knows, maybe down the line if she's single you'll reconnect.

For now just focus on being your charming self and don't let one girl's hard to read vibes bruise that ego! Plenty more fish and all that. You got mad charisma bro, so don't trip.