Im so glad to have come across this question. My girlfriend has had a rough past and I doubt myself all the time for dating her. You saying you're intimidated enlightens me so much. It is an excellent term that describes how I feel towards my gf.
Ive been dating mine for 7+ months and I still have my moments where I'm entirely scared she may return to old ways and do something that will damage our relationship. If I could see outside the box then maybe I could determine whether or not I should continue dating her. It is tough to maintain these things. Dang emotions get involved and you're in for a rough ride
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Tell your aunt to go back to the 18th century.
Unbelievable what she said.
If you love her I'm not totally sure it's any place for your aunt to comment, but I'm not going to argue that, family bond... As for the girl, don't be intimidated, she obviously knows you're a virgin and couldn't care less, it doesn't necessarily even make her better than you. Chances are she respects you for it. I'd suggest telling her you feel intimidated, but that sounds way to much like a teenage TV show where nothing good ever happens...
First of all, three guys? Within the confines of a relationship? That's not whorish at all. This isn't 1830.
If she knows that you're a virgin, of course she isn't going to have huge expectations for you the first time you guys have sex. If she loves you, she'll be more than willing to teach you, and it'll probably be a good bonding experience for you two.
You should tell your aunt to shove it. Your girlfriend isn't a leper.
How is dating a sin? And and unless you also believe in all those strict beliefs then who cares if your aunt disapproves? It's not your mother. And three guys isn't bad, especially since she was in a relationship with them. And who cares if you're a virgin, it has to happen sometime so don't let your nerves hold you back.
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Do yourself a favor...and find another girl...I promise you will be happier in the long run. Your Aunt is a moron for telling you that dating is a sin...its not. Premarital sex is a sin...(God is very clear on this) you should know this by now. You're uncomfortable because deep down inside you know what your girl friend has done in her past is very imoral. Run man...run fast! Go find a girl who values and respects her body and herself. If you stay with her...you will begin a long journey down a very dark road.
Grow a pair.
lissen to your aunt.
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