Why do most guys find short and average height women more attractive and feminine than us tall woman?

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

I never understood what the fuss is all about with petite women. Also average height women. It triggers me when petite and average height women wanna be taller and intimidating. Tall women get so much shit, criticized and ridiculed so harshly. Most guys don’t even want a tall woman. They won’t even look at us. I’m 6 foot tall barefoot and I’ve been rejected for my height. I’ve been dumped and cheated on because of my height. In middle school, boys didn’t even wanna come near me and plus I was very thin because I hit puberty. Me gaining weight made it worse and guys were intimidated by me because I ballooned to 252lbs by junior year of high school.
yesterday I was working out at the gym at my college and one guy was staring at me. I thought it was because he found me beautiful but he looked at me up and down. He was like, “DAMN! You are tall? No woman should be over 5’7.
I didn’t say anything I just kept working out. He said, “The reason most guys don’t approach tall women like you is because they don’t like being emasculated and you kill the masculine vibes. You’re just not date worthy. I’m glad I have a petite girlfriend.”
I told him he was a jackass and walked away. Then he said, “What? Truth hurts? Men prefer shorter women because they’re more feminine looking. That’s the truth.” He looked about 6’1”.

[Apple1996]

As a very short woman I know the exact reason why. It's cuz these guys are pedos and are attracted to women who are short/tiny/look like childern.

I've had many creeps say things to me like your tiny like a baby, I could carry you around, throw you around during sex. Also they assume im submissive cuz of my height. Luckily my man doesn't even care or notice my height and treats me like a grown woman and doesn't say weird shit to me like that. Just wouldn't be able to stand being with a man that thinks it's okay to treat my height as a fetish.

[nastyb]

a lot of short guys insecure about their own height. i find its usually the short guys who obsess over a woman's height

[TommyWiseau69]

@nastyb *I find it's usually short women that obsess over a woman's height

FTFY

[nastyb]

@TommyWiseau69

I dont find that to be true from my experience

[TommyWiseau69]

@nastyb then you're living under a rock. Of course it's true. Short women care wayyy more about height than short men that's a fact

[TommyWiseau69]

@nastyb meant to say short women care more about men's height

[kellytheman]

Well I don't really care much about height and I have dated women taller than me before especially in highschool because I mostly date volleyball and basketball girls and some cheerleader's. I have dated a girl who was 6'3 and I am 5'11 at that time. I do think some guys are mostly intimidated if your taller than them and think if you guys become sexual partners he might think you be more dominant and he would have to be submissive and some guys might not like that. I honestly don't care who is dominant or submissive I am more of a switch but like being submissive to my current girlfriend who is shorter than I am.

[TommyWiseau69]

Because they have little dick energy. A confident guy won't care trust me. Most of the short and average women are not top quality dw about them guys will be miserable wasting their time with them. I understand your frustration. I'm a short guy at 5'4 and get rejected for being too short. It's best not to spend time with these people. They aren't worth a second of your time. I promise you that you'll find a good guy for you that'll treat you well and appreciate you. Good things come to those that wait. Best of luck

[nastyb]

just go for girls shorter than you. they will be more likely to accept you

[nastyb]

I find it ridiculous how men ridiucle women for wanting taller men. Meanwhile all these men judge women by height the same exact way. All these men want shorter women. Believe it or not I'm 5'5'' with sneakers on and I've had 1 guy (5'9'') tell me that I'm as tall as a man.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

What the hell? You’re 5’5! There’s no way you are! That guy is so stupid.

[nastyb]

he felt easily emasculated which was why he said I'm as tall as a man. It basically all boils down to how he feels about his own fragile masculinity.

[htmndg183]

Because they are shallow and not able to look past height. Which honestly sucks because height is natural and can't be changed. If i were to end up with a woman taller than myself, it would be because of the connection, vibes and understanding. That is how it should be.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

Thank you!!! Exactly! Why can’t there be more guys like you?

[htmndg183]

Because i consider myself a gentleman. And not every guy out there is one. I'm sorry you've had to go through a lot for something natural and not within your control. I don't know if it helps, but if you ever want to talk about it, feel free to do so. Safe space and non judgmental.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know but short, curvy girls are my weakness. Like 5’2-5’6.

Tall women are usually all legs and arms, lanky, and they have flattish butts and no boobs—in general. But I like very curvy women.

I dated a girl in highschool who was 6ft or 6’1. She was pretty and nice but uh, again flattish butt, no boobs, and long lanky arms and legs. All elbows and knees.

It’s not like I don’t check out tall women, it is just that in general if I like curvy women they tend to be shorter. Also it just “feels@ more feminine, having a shorter woman u can hold in my arms, instead of some lanky tall glass of water who is nearly as tall as me

[TommyWiseau69]

I've seen short women that are just the same. Like flat all around. That's a pretty big generalization. I think it's safe to say that if you need a woman drastically shorter than you to feel like a "man" Then tall women have every reason to avoid tall men like you. A lot of these tall women end up going for guys that aren't even tall because they don't give a shit. Are you a fem boy or something that you want to feel more feminine with a shorter women? Very weird. You do you though.

[Opinion Owner]

@TommyWiseau69 Oh no! A man made a generalization about women! Call The NY Times.

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Good grief. Just listen to yourself. Sigh.

[Honest-Matt]

I'm 5'5" on a good day and have dated mostly girls taller than me. I date and find attraction in girls by who they are not their height. Besides, I like the looks I get when we're walking holding hands and people are shocked and confused, it's entertaining.

[Honest-Matt]

I think I've only dated 5'10" as the tallest, I find it interesting dating someone even taller, it'd be fun.

[Shamalien]

Youth = fertility. Woman have actually evolved to look more youthful at older ages because that’s what gets them impregnated. Think about it, soft skin, less facial hair, smaller in general, more delicate. I think it’s way too far to call men pedos for being attracted to women as women are women, not children, they have youthful characteristics but an adult woman is still an adult

[NamerOfStars]

Because they're actually able to talk about something beyond their romantic rejections. This is the fourth or fifth time you've asked this same question; is there a particular answer you're looking for?

[Hithere4567]

Aren't there many actresses who are a lot taller than 5'7" that tons of guys are attracted to?

This guy was just an asshole. Not worth getting angry over his bullshit because he's not worth a thought.

[AutisticLonelyWoman]

So I’m not allowed to get angry? He insulted me. There’s too many short actresses. Like for example Scarlet Johansson is I think 5’3”, Britney Spears is 5’4” and Jenna Ortega is only 5’0” I believe. Lots of guys like them. I am massively next to them. I hate it! Being a 6ft woman sucks.

[Hithere4567]

No, I don't blame you for being angry. I totally understand how you feel.

[Lovethecountry]

I prefer taller, but also height is really not that important to me, I've seen attractive people of all heights