Search Results: situationship

Are these red flags already?

Just looking for some outside opinions that aren’t my friends telling me to give him a chance lol. So last weekend I met this guy, we connected and it was a good vibe. He asked for my number and I gave him it. He called...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Birthday Card Can embarrass?

I've been dating a guy for a couple of months, and even before this we were really good friends. I've known him for 2 years now, and we dated on and off. However, he hit me up again this year and I decided to give him...

Anonymous

(36-45)

WHY DID MY friends with benefits GET ALL SH*TTY AT ME FOR TALKING ABOUT ANOTHER GUY?

So I was in a friends with benefits relationship with a friends for a long time but also met another guy whilst I was seeing this friends with benefits. I now have a bad relationship with the Current guy I’m seeing as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

WHAT DID HE MEAN BY THIS STATEMENT?

Anonymous

(36-45)

My situationship wants to stay friends. Why he did this to me?

My situationship wants to stay friends so I asked “you aren’t like me anymore?” he said “I like you a lot but I don’t want to hurt you”. so i said “Im happy with you but don’t use me as a excuse, even i’m happy you would...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My situationship said wants to stay friends. Why he said that?

My situationship said he wants to stay friends so I asked “you aren’t like me anymore?” he said “I like you a lot but I don’t want to hurt you”. so i said “Im happy with you but don’t use me as a excuse, even i’m happy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Will you settle if you have standards?

I’m not settling for anyone. My life is together - home , car , and career and I’m actually waiting on the right person it’s going on 8 years being single next year in January and actually I’m waiting on someone who wants...

KC21439

Xper 3 Age: 38

Does my friends with benefits want to be more?

I came out of a long term relationship (8 years) and soon after I started seeing my Friends with benefits (lets call him Bob). We work together so we see each other every day. At first we started hooking up once a week or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Y’all felt this before?

A while back, I found myself in a situationship because I thought things were headed into an actual relationship. But turns out this guy I was messing with ended up choosing someone else. Luckily I left him before things...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How do people who use cocaine act?

I'm dealing with a guy who is a family friend that I like. I just found out not only does he drink and smoke weed, but now cocaine too. He never follows through with dates or plans. Is this normal for a coke user? What...

kim27

Xper 6 Age: 32

Girl's Behavior

Why did she text me after 8 months?

I was seeing this chick for a couple of months until I decided to cut it off. I considered it a situationship, but I wasn’t comfortable with her flaking and seeing other dudes, so I just told her we had a good run and to...

ThaddeusThundercawk

Xper 5 Age: 34

How can I change my attachment style?

My attachment style is fearful avoidant. I’m sure I have been like this for a while and I don’t believe it has stemmed from childhood.. rather than an early so called toxic situationship that made me into who I am today....

Anonymous

(25-29)

What should I do about my situationship with this guy?

Hello everyone! This is my first post on here and I am very excited. I’m hoping that some of you can provide some insight because i don’t have that many people in my life that i can turn to about this situation that...

bbean9802

Xper 3 Age: 30

How to stop feeling paranoid and insecure in a situationship/friends with benefits type situation?

Been sleeping with this guy for 7 months. We kinda labelled it friends with benefits but it’s more than that because things are very intimate eg we go on dates and cook meals together and have met each other’s families...

Anonymous

(18-24)

How do you get over a situationship?

Situationships are basically when you are in between casual and dating. It's a little more than a friends with benefits, but it's not a full blown relationship. They can last for quite a while too. My situationship...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy friend doesn’t want to talk about his past relationships?

I have a guy friend whom I caught up with recently. We’ve been texting for a few weeks straight and he asked me about a situationship I was going through. I told him and after a few days of venting I apologized. He said...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy friend wants to know about my past?

I recently started talking to a guy friend (caught up) again and we’ve been talking for three weeks. What does it mean if he wants to know about any past relationships/situationships I’ve been in? lol

DAsk04

Xper 5 Age: 34