How do you get over a situationship?

[Anonymous]

Situationships are basically when you are in between casual and dating. It's a little more than a friends with benefits, but it's not a full blown relationship. They can last for quite a while too.

My situationship of 6 months just ended a couple of days ago. I am kind of upset because I did really care for him, but ultimately the relationship was going nowhere and I was just getting hurt.

How do you get over someone you never even dated?

[Hawaiikai]

I was put in a situationship with out intent only to hear “what relationship? “ that hurt really bad. I was overthinking everything, my anxiety increased bad, tossing and turning, i started smoking even or cigs. I remember laying next to him in bed one night and I can’t tell you how much anxiety I had. I couldn’t even sleep. I was sweating in ice cold ac. When he would reach his arm over me in bed to cuddle, I didn’t even touch is arm or anything. Both of my hands tucked under my pillow and thinking to myself, what the hell am I doing here? That’s what helped me yo get over it

[iseekpinetrees]

You distract yourself and find better friends