I still have very strong feelings for my situationship, how do I get over it?

So if you look at my previous question you will get a lot more detail of how we started. Please be kind

point of the story is, is that he is married and I have a partner of 7 years. We started a thing but now it’s over. I ended it recently, he only called or talked to me when he was free let’s say he’ll call maybe once a week purely to meet up and have sex. I said no every time because for me I really liked him & I wanted more but he just wanted sex so it just didn’t feel right anymore.

I think about him everyday and I don’t know how to get over this, he doesn’t come into work anymore but there’s always a chance he might. How do I get over him? I told him not to contact me anymore and that I can’t do this anymore that my feelings have changed. But in reality I miss him so much and I want him so badly I don’t know why it was always sexual with him that’s why I ended it.

please how long will it take to get over him?

I still have very strong feelings for my situationship, how do I get over it?
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