Why did she text me after 8 months?

[ThaddeusThundercawk]

I was seeing this chick for a couple of months until I decided to cut it off. I considered it a situationship, but I wasn’t comfortable with her flaking and seeing other dudes, so I just told her we had a good run and to go our separate ways.

She was totally ok with it. I wasn’t planning on seeing her again. However, from time to time, she would send me stupid emojis or a gif without actually saying anything, so I just ignored it.

8 months later, which is now, she starts texting me full sentences asking how I am, what I’m doing, etc. I’m wondering, why is she all of a sudden interested in me now? It’s been a while and I’ve moved on. Did she run out of options?

[Floppy2112]

You're number 2! You're number 2!
Number 1 didn't work out, so she went to number 2. So yeah, she ran out of options. It's up to you what to do with it. I wouldn't deal with her, because I would know, being a backup, she'll run after her next number 1 and comeback when that one doesn't work out.

[Anonymous]

i have an ex that would contact me for a brutal ass fucking every so often. It was like she needed her internal clock reset every so often and my dick fit into her ass like a key winding up a clock. I always obliged her unless I was seeing someone else.

[1truekhaleesi]

Really sounds like a flake and can't make a commitment, so she keeps you on the back burner. Make your boundaries clear and tell her to find someone else to use on the back burner.

[Daniela1982]

What do you care what the reason is? You were done with her. Unless you are going to be dumb enough to revisit it. Play me once shame on you. Play me twice shame on me.

[Daniela1982]

The OP is a sorry ass kiss ass.

[Anonymous]

I see that everyone saying that she ran out of options but I don't think girls like her do run out of options. They grow up tho and realize what's important, so maybe she's tired of talking to guys and now actually entertaining the thought of rekindling things with the one guy she actually respected..

[BossBilly]

Dude, she's texting cuz most men chase and need way too. much attention and validation from woman so u are in a sense a relief and a man she can be at ease with. But ur not 100 percent there yet.. Just... ve nice to her?, be a friend and never think she's yours... if she feels free and knows ur there for her, your world changes inna great way

[A_Bell]

She was dumped, hit the backboard and you caught the rebound. Or she has an itch that needs a scratch and you were the safest option.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe she has now kissed enough frogs to realize that she passed up a prince.

[AmeerX]

I think she regret it. Give her a chance if you love her. I know I would as long as she is not married

[Drumlin2001]

Difficult to know for sure but yeah, would seem she ran out of options and is hoping you're waiting like an obedient puppy

[dreamstar72]

Maybe she decided to let you know it’s all most time. LOL

[pleasestopthis]

She probably has no one else to pay her attention and wants to see if you can give it to her

[Apa_22]

Yeah probably. Sameness reason a guy would ghost girls for weeks/months then suddenly hit them up again. From what I read, she’s up to no good. But best thing to do is ask.

[Iron_Man]

She’s probably back single again and is curious about you

[In_Trance]

Simple

[Princess__Serene]

Yes, seems very much like she ran out of options. DO NOT go back to her.

[Waldoe]

she did run out of options, or realized you were the best of the litter

[Anonymous]

because rebound relationship last between three and eight months and obviously her rebound is over and she’s looking for something familiar

[Anonymous]

She is spreading her legs but no one is interested
Apart from the last dude she got banged which was you
so its simple she wants you back

[Anonymous]

Girls like it when you ignore them but when you give them attention they feel full and leave.

[Opinion Owner]

You still have the upper hand here. So leave her.

[Hangryella]

She probs ran out of options and is lonely

[friendzoned4life]

Yep and to add to this best he can do is ignore her existence. The moment he cut her off she had to be dead in his mind

[zoe2187]

She either hasn’t moved on or she is lonely.

[Jmmmfi4]

Bingo. Its something I'd do.

[Marhaban-1]

Perhaps your been used

[Anonymous]

Yep. Sounds like a lack of options to me