What the heck is my ex thinking? He cheated on me with a 2nd girlfriend (that's right - not just a one time thing). Dumped me for that girl by no longer replying to me (I mean it - he simply started ignoring me one day and never replied to me ever again and broke off all ties). 8 months later.. I have moved on and left him alone, but he texts me to see how I'm doing. I only answered his question straight forward and did not make conversation out of the way. He got the message -- he then apologized (which means nothing to him, believe me) for what he did and wishes me well? Why bother me in the first place? Obviously he never gave a crap about me back then to treat me like dirt, why bother now?
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He's could be fishing to see if you're still interested in him. Some jerks out there like to know that they've got people interested in them. In fact it can really boost their ego, a very dangerous thing sometimes.
On the other hand he might actually feel guilty and his attempts to make contact with may just be to see that you are okay - but from your description of him I'd very much doubt it.
Don't go getting revenge though. I tried it with an ex who was using me. It was a waste of time because he never learnt his lesson. Move on from this jerk and never look back. He's kindergarten material - a self-centred brat. Kick his ass to the curb and focus on finding a future that you are more deserving of.
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