What the heck is my ex thinking? He cheated on me with a 2nd girlfriend (that's right - not just a one time thing). Dumped me for that girl by no longer replying to me (I mean it - he simply started ignoring me one day and never replied to me ever again and broke off all ties). 8 months later.. I have moved on and left him alone, but he texts me to see how I'm doing. I only answered his question straight forward and did not make conversation out of the way. He got the message -- he then apologized (which means nothing to him, believe me) for what he did and wishes me well? Why bother me in the first place? Obviously he never gave a crap about me back then to treat me like dirt, why bother now?