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Girl: “I have been thinking and I really really enjoy spending time with you but I think more as friends. How are feeling about it? I understand if you no longer want to meet tomorrow! I hope your week is going okay x”

Guy: “I’m glad you mentioned it actually - I was going to ask you how you felt. Tbh, I’d find it difficult to just be friends with someone who I find attractive and I find you attractive. I do find I have to get to know someone over a month or 2 before I can take things to a more intimate level though.
My weeks been good thanks. Hope yours is good as well. I’m still happy to meet you tomorrow but up to you - I understand if you’d rather just part ways based on what I’ve said. x”

girl: “Okay, I understand! Thank you for letting me know :) I think then it might be better not to meet tomorrow as it could become confusing, I am also getting quite worried about covid again so bad timing. Thank you for being so kind and understanding :)
I hope you have a lovely Christmas and New year x. (I will still transfer the money for the ticket) thank you for organising such lovely dates :) really enjoyed them all“

4 months later guy likes an instagram post by the girl. Girl then likes one of his holiday posts a week later. Couple of weeks later she posts a story of herself with her niece and he says “Very cute. Your niece?” She replies “Thanks :) yes my little niece.”

My female coworker and I have been getting really close over the last few months, talking and flirting with each other, and in that time I developed strong feelings for her feelings I have never felt with any other woman in my life. I also heard from other coworkers who I'm close with that she confided in that she has feelings for me too, but the thing is, she started dating someone else who is also works at the same job.

Long story short, without getting into too much detail, I'm starting to have thoughts of gradually doing things that would get them to break up with each other. I don't see myself doing it in real life because I'm not that type of person to ruin a relationship no matter how I'm feeling, but in my head I'm a totally different person. I literally have a whole plan about what I could do. Am I fucked up person for having these thoughts?