We’ve been together for a couple months and this isn’t the first time he’s gotten anxious about being in a relationship, and I understand bc he’s never really been in a relationship before me and like first time jitter and he’s got anxiety on top of all of it so I get why he would feel anxious sometimes. Thing is last time he got like this we were seeing each other like 4-6 times a week and now we’re only hanging out once a week and we’re not like alone in his apartment we’re out doing things or playing games with his little brother so there’s less temptation to do things not so wholesome which is the main thing that stressed him out last time. Lately he’s feeling anxious again he’s been starting to retreat and not talk to me as much as normal or as like I guess excitedly And now I’m doing the same thing bc my anxiety. I guess I’m just nervous that I’m letting my nerves get to me and I don't know something about it is making me feel like the last time this happened when we ended up taking a break for like a month and a half and he was sending me mixed signals but saying he just wanted to be friends and yada yada. Anyway I think I’m just anxious because me and him know we can still be friends if the romantic part still works but with how w awkward he is I’m scared that it’ll turn into just another friend that I only talk to over text or social media and then I think man I’m getting ahead of myself I shouldn’t be worried about us breaking up because me and him have talked about it and hen said that even with his anxiety he doesn’t wanna break up, and he gets more nervous with lack of sleep and he has exams this week for school so he’s been not sleeping a lot anyway I just need someone to set me straight and tell me that I’m doing exactly what I think I’m doing and that my thoughts are irrational or that my thoughts make total sense and that I should talk to him about my concerns anything helps
Am I being paranoid about my boyfriends anxiety?
