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I need advice from you to help me decide who is the right man for me. I grew up innocent without any knowledge and much experience with men because my parents are strict. I just got out of my parents' hands this year, now that I am 27. I met two guys in my life.

I know Daniel, a year ago, on a dating site. At first, he was very persistent towards me. I didn't like him at first because he is too old for me but he was serious by calling me every day, being there when I was depressed, and, giving food and gifts as a surprise. However, after 7 months, I'd noticed on his Facebook, that I was not the only foreign girl he added, and gave a flower to another girl who he met online with a letter saying "Smile, it is another day." I got mad and the girl stayed away from Daniel. After that event, he doesn't care about me anymore, no calls, no gifts. He always punishes me by not talking to me for one to three months. He even accused me of wanting him for money or a visa even if it was not even true.

Due to my anger that Daniel didn't talk to me for 2 months. I went back to the dating site and I met Kostas. He is very interested in me and even wants to meet me even just after 3 weeks. He flew to visit me because I rebelled against Daniel's abandonment. I did sleep with him. Kostas was really kind to me online, but when I met him, I realized he cannot really treat me right. He got fed off of my problems and, worse, he left me at the mall alone and threw my stuff because I didn't want to follow what he wants. But after a day, he apologised to me. If we ever have a disagreement or fight, he is willing to communicate through it. Unlike Daniel, he had to punish me first by not talking for one to two months. Or worse, more months.

Please advise me, who should I choose and marry? Or what should I do?

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27F, I may sound entitled but from my gut feeling and experiences in life, I know how these things play out on the apps. That’s my only avenue bc I don’t have a social life, I use them very very casually. This has happened a few times where I ask if the guy wants to message on social media bc I don’t check the apps often, they or I give my account info, we add each other & I wait for them to message me. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don’t. From what I noticed in my life even if I take initiative & it usually doesn’t work out, it goes a bit further if the guy makes the first move. I asked a guy Wed about msging on social media bc I don’t check app often, add him on IG, he adds me back, views my story & likes a photo of my dog & I but doesn’t reach out? He views all my stories but never initiates? If by tomorrow he doesn’t reach out I’m unfollowing him